i’m 16 and everyone my age has multiple exes and most are currently in a relationship and here i am 16 and i’ve never been loved before.
I've tried EVERYTHING. talking to guys at social events (festivals, clubs, party’s, group hangouts) , at school, online, in person, etc… anyway you could possibly find a potential partner at 16 i’ve tried thousands of times AND IT NEVER WORKS. all i want to know is what i’m doing wrong and what i can change.
i try my hardest to be nice and interesting, since i’m extremely shy i push myself as much as i can to be like these other girls, i even tried just being my usual shy self and that set me back even more. i try not to be weird or awkward, i put so much effort into my physical appearance, i try to be talkative, relaxed, exciting, funny, caring, kind, nurturing, easy to like and i still keep getting turned down or straight up used for physical intimacy.
i’m so depressed i’m honestly thinking of becoming lesbian or something because i don’t know what to do anymore.
WHAT CAN I DO?
at every family gathering my family thinks it’s pathetic i’m still single and my elder sisters who get so much attention for being popular and attractive think i’m a loser for it. also the fact i’m still a virgin and very introverted.
should i try to change my whole personality? honestly considering this even though it sounds wrong. guys just absolutely think i’m nothing and i don’t want to live like that (i used to also get bullied by boys for being ugly and weird before highschool and that kinda traumatised me a bit)