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I a am overly hairy guy which I obviously hate. I have tried shaving , waxing , removal creams , trimmer and epilator. Since the hair is pretty coarse and thick Its really really painful to wax/epilate especially the torso. Also I itch a lot for a couple of days after I shave , get ingrown hair after waxing. The short trimmed hair feels too stubbly. Damn. It's sort of curse. I have almost lost self esteem and confidence. Always feel hairy messy guy whom no girl would admire /want. If you were in my situation how would you do about this unwanted hairiness?

Unfortunately I am a really very hairy guy. Always hated it as I saw other guys were so less hairy and girls were so smooth.
Never felt confident and comfortable with being beastly hairy.
Always felt self conscious... and got fascinated by female smoothness... to the extent that I felt but jealous of their smooth skin.

Now I use clippers to closely trim whole legs and thighs, leave some forearm hair and shave torso... try to do it as regularly as possible... but still not satisfied since it gets prickly stubbly. Have tried waxing and epilator but was too painful on torso.

Is it too much of hair removal getting borderline effeminate?

Generally average men don't shave/wax/trim their body because they already have normal/decent amount and hence don't need to.
But if a guy is very hairy guy, he obviously needs to do something about it.

If he closely trims his legs and thighs, shaves his torso and trims his arms to about 1 mm length, would this be called metrosxual? Gayish? Effeminate? Over grooming and too much effort?

I have very hairy body and hence I used clppers to closely trim the legs and thighs.
It's been couple of days and as you see in the pic it has gotten sort of stubbly regrowth.

Does it look good and better than natural too much hairy legs and thighs and I should continue it and even closely trim the arms?

Should men who are very hairy than an average man is expected to be shave /trim the whole legs , thighs and arms atlat le once every 1p days or so?