It depends on the guy and the girl involved. If she's attracted to a hairy man or if she doesn't mind (like my best friend who's dating a very hairy guy) let that shit grow. If someone is repulsed by it, the guy could choose to shave or trim. But it'd be up to him.
Personally I'm very in favor of accepting someone the way (s) he is. I for example have more hair on my arms then most girls and I would be mad if my date or boyfriend would make a comment about it. My personality is way more important than some hair on my arms, and if you can't look past it, if you can't like me for who I am then you are shallow and there's the door.
Plus it takes soooo much time shaving your whole goddamn body. Do you want to invest so much time to attract someone that could be turned off by your hair later on? or do you want someone to accept you for your hairy self?
Both of the poll answers are on extreme sides of the spectrum. I say that it varies. If you are comfortable with your body hair, or you are comfortable being shaved or even just trimmed, then cool. I have said it before and I will say it again: we women cannot expect you men to let us do what we want with our looks, and get offended and upset when you say you aren't fond of something, but then turn around and expect them to adhere to our physical expectations. Talk to your partner about it. But remember that just because you are dating or even married, doesn't mean they own you, and it is your choice in the end. Take suggestions. Be open. But know it is your choice and no one else's.
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So mature thought!šš Hey, supposed this type was your man and he asked about your opinion and comfort, and he would do anything that you are comfortable with?
I mean itās really up to the person with the hair ya know? If they wanna have they can, but if they donāt they also shouldnāt expect women to be spending hours and hours shaving their legs, arms, and everything in between ya know?
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No no. I prefer women to be as natural as thay can be. So that's a non issue. But I can wax and shave everything if that's what she wants me to do. As a girl, if I ask what would you prefer more.. then? Shave everything? Be honest... not diplomatic
Mmmmm well honestly I think that armpits are better off shaved. Hairy backs are a little weird but I can deal. From personal experience, though, legs and arms arenāt worth the effort (or the razor burn) and a little (or a lot of) fuzz there is more comfortable to touch than a day-old uncomfortableness stubble
I get shaving groin area, armpit and back is amust for hygiene. Am talking about the very hairy front torso ( chest and stomach) , arms , upper arms and legs and thighs... if too hairy. Such a case..
Ohhhh ok well I think it would be nice if the guy had smooth skin instead of hairy but Iām not gonna be a bitch and demand that he wax because my poor sensitive female eyes canāt handle it lol I think that outside of hygiene those areas should be a personal decision that the guy should make for himself, and if you decide you want to because your girl asks all the power to you š
Women are less hairy than men because men found hairless women more attractive. Hairless women stood out from the monkey women and men could feel more of their soft skin. Men also lost hair because women preferred men with less hair but not to a great extent because men were hunters and had to leave the safety of their caves to hunt during the last ice age and hairless men found it harder to survive in such cold climates than hairy men. Even now men who's ancestors lived in colder climates have more hair than the ones who lived warmer places. This is true for animals as well. Having thick facial hair shows sexual maturity of a man and women are more attracted to those men, but not to the extent men prefer hairless women.
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So, what do you mean? Shave off the legs as hairy as those?
I am very hairy all over, I used to get teased a lot growing up and kids in school called me names for it.
I actually do shave my front once or twice in a year, the smooth skin feels good.
I'm always afraid I'm never gonna find another girl who won't mind it.
I tend to shave my chest, arms, belly, pubes, and legs all in the front, not just for the occasional smoothness, but also to clean off the dirt that's hard to wash off.
Sometimes I wish I could afford to remove it permanently if I could afford it, but sometimes I think I wouldn't mind it as much if it didn't grow out so long or fall off and get on everything and everywhere.
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Till now you have had one girlfriend and she accepted you as long as you shaved it off?
It's completely up to you, you shouldn't be swayed or pushed into doing something you think might be more attractive, fit in with your sexuality, or just normal. Some people don't mind hair, some people do. I think if you wanna shave something, start off with the forearm hair- it's less obvious plus if you don't like it the type of hair follicle there won't drastically change from the type of hair follicle before. I waxed my dads leg hair for a project (he's a very hetero hyper male e. g. hunting shooting fishing type guy) and he was amazed at the smoothness; quote "it feels like china". But he was was shocked at how bloody painful it was! Remember with the removal comes the aftercare, I wish i hadn't shaved my legs when a teen cause I wouldn't have darker thicker hair now :)
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My forearms are also very hairy. Hey, as a woman what's your preference? Smoothie men?
Totally up to you man. Like I said don't think you have to fit into the 'ideal man' that women find attractive. Me? I prefer a little hairy but not a full on body- i'm not keen on the frothy chest hair. But I've I like the guy or love him, I don't mind what kinda hair he has- nor should he for me :)
Also when looking through the answers, it looks like to me most young women (below 21) like a cleaner look and women older (above 25) don't mind it or suggest you do what you want.. Just keep that in mind when reading your answers- women's first exposure to hair (especially the other sex) is normally with other young teens- so not much body hair- therefore more inclined to sway with a 'smoothie man' haha..
Yeah! With interviews/questionnaires with different age ranges or women and men, hair removal product manufactures and of course beauticians and clinics! Questions such as why they remove their hair, how were they encouraged to remove it, who taught them to remove their hair, what age did they remove it etc... it's an incredibly interesting sociological topic Started off with body hair in general but now I've focused on the influence of pornography being used as a sex education tool for young adolescent females to remove pubic hair.. CRRAAAaazzzyyyy right? hahaha
Iām so done with this questions, I think youāve invited me a few times... do whatever the hell you want. If having hair bothers you, then shave it. Simple as that
I personally donāt like shaven legs, other girls do. At the end of the day, the one that has to look at the mirror every day is you, so you do you
first mans legs look more appealing than the second. the second one looks gay, girly and unappealing. if someone wants to remove the amount of hair shown in the first picture, shaving would be stupid as the thick stubble would irritate the skin, it would take too much time also. leave it hairy it's much smoother, or trim. but if he feels necessary to remove the hair, then waxing is the best option. it leaves the skin smooth and the hairs grow back thinner. no stubble from waxing
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Wading such heavy amounts of hairs is also stupid because I have tried it all. First of all it's so painful to wax those, secondly the ingrowns suck big time. The hairs being very coarse the ingrown come in with full force and break hell... it gets so itchy and sensitive tbh. I agree shaving easily gives think cactus stubble. See, hence being such heavy hairy is a curse as I have always said and felt it to be. It only ends with the life of the man having it.!!š
by the way how can / why would you say the first picture looks more appealing to look at and to touch? It looks so so messy creepy TBH and in comparison to a woman's smooth soft hairless legs it would look more creepy mess
the first picture looks better, because I don't like completely bare legs on a man. I'd rather have very hairy man instead of completely hairless. And you have not tried them all, there are lots of different hair removal treatments, if this problem still bothers you, it means you have not tried other options.
And , do you feel the same about very hairy chest and stomach and arms? It's better to be very hairy in those parts as well rathe than being too less hairy/smooth?
yes, I feel the same of those areas, they are better very hairy, not smooth like a dolphin. but the most important thing I want the man to love his body, feel sexy and confident in it, so whatever he needs to do to feel that way, it's his choice and I respect it. why trimming did not work? get a waterproof electric trimmer and do that in the shower. I think the best option for you is permanent hair removal. it might be costly at first, but it will save you money in the long run and be cheaper than waxing or shaving, cause once you do it they're gone forever.
In case of overly hairy men it is not the case. Laerr hair removal isn't permanent for very hair men. It works nicely for women, not much for men due to male hormones :/ unfortunately...
permanent hair removal is permanent for everyone. :) once the hair follicle is damaged it is not possible to grow new hairs. in a few years you might need an extra session in case some grow back, but it's very few of them. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uAULrHHg6O8
Are you kidding me! Why would anyone say he was better with hairs!š God, NO. He is much better after laser hair removal. Do you also think he was fine when he was hairy? LMAO
yeah. :) I love when people embrace their uniqueness. too bad people want to look like plain generic mannequins. I understand hair removal for hygiene or comfort, but if it's just for looks then it's not interesting
wow that's a powerful machine, I cannot believe how well it cleaned him. And fast, it would have taken me longer to shave. I think he took off too much, his upper arm hairs were beautiful, but he likes to be smooth. yes, this looks like a very good solution. it's probably better to do that in the shower.
look what he wrote in the next video:
''This is the moment you've all been waiting for! Or not lol. I have to say that I feel amazing after doing this. It feels so good to be smooth all over! Finally I don't feel overheated or itchy all over. Guess it doesn't hurt to try. '' I hope you follow this guys example. He found something that made him feel good, I hope you do too.
Hello No no no no. You know majority of women would be disgusted by the sight... am serious. You are a woman, you might know that about women more than me.
noone notices arm hair, it's too normal, like having two eyes and two eyebrows. that's the most ridiculous thing you've said so far that men should hide their arm hair lol... that's the most absurd thing
I understand your obsession with body hair, since not all men have that. but EVERY man has arm hair, some more some less. trying to hide that would be unnatural, like trying to hide someones ears
Firstly, I was talking about hiding the upper arm /shoulder hair... Secondly, you would say even too much of forearms hairs shouldn't be ashamed of and be hidden by wearing full sleeves? Am talking too much of forearm hair, hairy upper arms as well. cf.girlsaskguys.com/.../...b869-209d58101106-m.jpg
Entirely personal preference- you're asking these sorts of questions a hell of a lot, I really think you should talk to someone properly about it- the internet isn't somewhere where you are going to get supportive answers on a topic that is based entirely on personal taste, and entirely a sliding scale.
How much hair you have isn't going to change a deep opinion of you, only a shallow one- and at the end of the day, are only opinions.
I like natural better. Less work for you, and honestly I can't stand it when men shave their whole bodies. I don't know a single girl who prefers shaved over hairy. If you're uncomfortable with the amount of hair you have, just trim it once in a while. Otherwise, it's all good.
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Would you personally even prefer this very hairy legs , thighs over shaven /waxed ones? But why is it so?
This question is a to edged question to me it will depend on his location if is in cold country it help conserve heat. But in hot country he should shave but most girls like hairy guys
I think it's mostly fine, but if it gets a little out of hand, then that's kind of a deal breaker. In general, though, they get to make the decisions about their bodies. It's their body, after all: not mine.
No he would not look inferior or ugly! I want to look at my man's legs and see that they are man's legs. Hair adds to masculinity and I like hair on my man.
I honestly do not care. You want to shave? Cool. You want to leave it natural? Your choice. Why the hell does it matter? It's your body and your choice, I don't find one or the other less or more appealing.
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I mean shaving it doesn't make it more appealing! š How so..š¤ Well anyway, what do you say about shaved Chest and stomach, if too hairy? That looks great and prefer it shaven?
I don't fucking care yo. Neither one or the other looks better to me. You could be Chewbacca and if I find you attractive and there is chemistry THEN ZERO FUCKS GIVEN.
If you're hairy, you're hairy. If you naturally have less hair then that is how it is. You shouldn't have to cater to the expectations of another. If you want to shave, then you can.
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Ugh. Enough of philosophy. Just let the facts out. No points for being philosophical! As a young woman what do you prefer and expect in such disturbingly hairy men? Shaved chest and stomach.. is a requirement for sure.. how about legs and arms?
I don't see why you're getting so frustrated? I'm saying it how I see it. Yes, I like guys with less body hair but I'm not going to get my s/o to shave all of his body hair off because that's what I like. That'd be ridiculous.
Okay. Girls just want to have a clean image about themselves. That's ridiculous. What's wrong if you just let it out at least here that yes, I ate such hairiness and yes I would like it if he shaves it regularly. What's wrong in admitting it baby?
Lol don't call me baby that's cringy af. I don't hate hairiness, just not attracted to it is all. And since you want me to be very honest, I wouldn't be attracted to someone that hairy because it is my preference. I'm not going to get him to shave because he wouldn't have to because he wouldn't be that hairy in the first place.
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