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women don't care who bring home the bacon lettuce tomato cheese as long as you treat them right and listen and understand them... sike!; its all theater, they do care in fact the care to a prejudice on who they are seen with (hence why you see or respect without question tall dude/ short girl relationships and question the challenge Tall girl short dude relationships. yeah how many relationships do you honestly see like that) by a certain point you gain a sixth sense for it and relate/ realize that the sexes relate to another through socially acceptable needs and bond over it. Relationships are just another form of communication and you display what you want people to think of you using your partner. however this is more at the mans expense and he has to have more corporeal/ collateral to even get up to Bat (women tie their self respect to just how much more the man has then her the don't allow men to do this/ it is short lived). So it is no surprise that a lot of Men get frustrated when they invest into a woman only to find out that it is truly a man or trans-woman; the problem is obvious that consent and knowledge play a huge role in the anger and frustration that a lot of men feel. This robs the men of choice, power, right to make a decision based on confidence and takes the sexuality out of ambiguity adding fear. And women couldn't care less/ think its funny when a man end up in this conundrum; and they force there hand. On a woman's hand this is not a trivial factor and dose-not affect/effect so much. I however how come up with some options to discuss and want your vote or suggestion. Which idea do you think would convey this idea heavier to the opposite sex?

I’ve had to deal with this disgusting bullying bs for the better part of my life. I’m 100% straight but also unfortunately a sensitive & “nice” guy.

But the thought of doing it with another man gives me a gag reflex. That doesn’t mean I hold anything against gay people (I’m friends with a few). But it’s not for me when it comes down to it nor will it ever be.

I’ve had gfs but I’ve never had anything that was serious and lasted longer then a year.

There is just a disgusting unfair stereotype that long time single men past the age of 30 are “secretly gay”. In 2020 there is very little downside of coming out in the western world. It’s often celebrated. So why would a straight man lie about his sexuality? Why is it such a big deal to everyone else?

I really do want a serious girlfriend and to start a family. But this is extremely challenging considering where I live and several other factors. My girlfriend had a good personality but I didn’t see a bright future with her (she has clinical psychological problems). I had to break it off.

So um... physical appearance first I guess. I got medium brown hair. Chin length. Medium brown eyes. Pale skin. I'm Brazilian, but look like a white American. I'm 5'9, weigh 153 pounds. I'm pretty slim, and kind of toned. Though I do have some meat on me too, especially on my legs/thighs. And my thighs kind of jiggle a lot, but they're not "FAT." I shave off all of my body hair, though I'm not hairy to begin with. I got zero facial hair, so no need to even shave. I like to wear short shorts...3-5 inch inseam. About mid-thigh, or covering half my thigh, or slightly less. Rise up half an inch when I sit. I paint my nails all sorts of pretty colors, too. Physically, I clearly look masculine, and can't pass for a girl. I look like a regular guy who just happens to paint his nails, shave his legs, and wear short shorts.

Then personality... I am very sweet, caring, kind, affectionate. I always ask people how their day is, in a very soft voice, and am willing to listen to someone's problems, always. I love affection, hugs, cuddles, and kisses... though I always ask if the person is okay with it first, obviously. I also am sensitive. I cry at beautiful movies or beautiful songs. I also am good with animals and children. "Motherly" even. Though I don't desire to have my own pets or kids, too much work. But I like playing with like my friend's younger brothers and sisters, and their pets.

Then gender identity and sexuality... bisexual for sure. Then uh... femboy, agender, trans girl, and gender-fluid all apply. I don't necessarily WANT to be a woman, but I wouldn't mind if I was.

I do not plan to ever do hormone replacement therapy or sex reassignment surgery though. Too much work, money, risk, and papers. I'd rather keep things how they are. I'm happy this way.

Last time, I created a question poll about which gender group hurts women the most, with 72% of them saying that women hurt women the most over 28% of those who said it was men.

And, to be honest, I'm not surprised, because as much as modern society likes talks about how evil men are for oppressing women for over centuries, women are actually as responsible for women's oppression as men are since the Dawn of time, from Ancient Egypt to even the 21st century. And I'm not just talking about straight white women, I'm talking about women of all races and sexualities, including women who claim to be feminist and all about sisterhood, yet they criticised and shame women for harmless choices whether it's about their careers, looks, hobbies etc.
And there are a few examples I can say such as:

1) Men (of any sexual orientation) who are into comics, manga, anime and video games won't complain about fictional male characters being "too sexy, too muscular, too masculine etc." while women (especially SJW feminists) would complain about fictional female characters being "too sexy, too feminine, her boobs & butt being too big etc." because they think it's all about the "male gaze", even though lesbians and bisexual women can also be attracted to those types of women and not just men, plus there are plenty women who naturally look like this and aren't straight neither are trying to attract or impress men nor because society says that this is what women are supposed to "look like".

2) And it's not just women having a problem with fictional women who are physically attractive, in shape and very "feminine & girly" but also with women in real life who look, dress and act like that, more so than men do.

This why I believe women are as responsible for patriarchy existing as men are. Regardless, I would love for all of you to share your opinions whether or not you believe that women are their worst enemies, regardless of your gender and sexual orientation.