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me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year now. This morning he looked at my phone screen and saw some random number texted me last night at one in the morning.. the text said "yo". I'll admit it was a guy I went on a date with ONCE I had just given him my number on Instagram because he asked for it but he was just double texting cause I never replied in the first place ! I didn't save his number for crying out loud.. I know I'm wrong for that in a way but he means nothing at all to me my boyfriend is my world but sometimes I'll do things like that for the heck of it. But it really is harmless I swear😔 About a month ago a something similar happened I think the text said "hey beautiful" or something along those lines.. It was the same situation a number I didn't save someone from the past who popped up and wanted to know how I was doing. I really do love my boyfriend I guess I just kind of get bored sometimes? But I'd never actually hang out with another guy or anything like that... Guys please give me input. Oh, and actually it came out HE was the one cheating on ME like, fully cheating (having sex, dates, etc.) and I took him back. Maybe he feels like I'll do to him what he did to me. But this time I made up in my mind not to really give my all to him like last time because things like this happen and I don't know how long it'll even be before I hear from him. But trust I will hear from him, we've been at this awhile now. Back to my original question.. Is this something to breakup over?

Men following random women on social media... I know this question probably gets asked but the guy I've only started seeing does it and tbh I feel like dumping him already because of it. I know men say it's not a big but I think that's a cop out just to make out that your girl is overreacting so you feel like you're not doing anything wrong. If they saw an attractive girl on the street they wouldn't blatantly check her out in front of your girlfriend, would you?

It's a massive form of disrespect for me, I know attractive women don't become invisible when you're with someone but I think those little likes and follows are a step towards something else. He is an amazing person and it did look like it was going somewhere serious but now i feel fed up he didn't think of my feelings and how it would effect me. And tbh I don't think he even realizes that it's a big deal to me,

I didn't want to say it over the phone because I want to say it too his face, but should I reason with him or dump him? Are you one of these men that does this on their gf?