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Since I don't like makeup and hate dressing like a tramp, it seems that refusing to wear makeup or just wanting dress modest is looked down upon in this society. Everything that is natural for a girl is considered weird, lazy, unkempt, and unhygenic. I don't like changing my hair texture or anything else that changes me. When I go to the mall all natural, just about most of the teens and some younger adults treat me horribly, especially in Forever 21, the cashiers both women and men give me dirty and disgusted looks and refused to look at me. Most of the people in Forever 21 are always rude to me, it doesn't matter what store it is. It also seems racism has not died out. I still continue to see racist comments on the internet and even racist people in person. I went to sprouts and I had on fitness clothes and they weren't trashy, my hair was freshly washed, but I had it twisted and it was very short. I am a very hygienic person and clean, I rarely dress up anywhere, but I see no reason to dress up in regular grocery stores. I passed by this white lady and she clutched her purse when I passed by and she kept moving away from me and then I went near this white person and he quickly got away from me. Even the cashiers at sprouts are rude to me and give me an attitude. I dealt with rude comments online about my appearence and racist comments. I also have acne scars and I feel that's another thing people use against me. Ever since I moved back to California, I have been staring at myself in the mirror all day and everyday and I am obsessing over everything from my skin color, forehead shape, jaw shape, face shape, color of lips, small eyes, and everything else. I wish I never learned racism at such a young age, now I am scared of white people and feel dirty and ugly around them. It also doesn't help what men say about black women. Its very hard for me to continue to wear my natural hair and to not wear makeup with how badly im hurthurtin alll the ignorant commen

I work with this man, and I admittedly find him attractive and have a crush (I know dating coworkers isn't the best idea, I don't want to date him. I'm just curious.) He's very kind and quiet. He stares at me all of the time, like he's keeping tabs on me. He comes up to my desk a lot and asks me how I am or just says hi. Before, he was very subtle and I'm sure nobody noticed.
But lately, he's been doing it in front of his coworkers, and he's also been standing very close to me in front of others like he just doesn't care. The other day, I was talking to another guy that obviously has a crush on me, and the guy in question walked past and gave the guy the dirtiest look I've ever seen. Today as he was leaving, he stared at me with this smile on his face for a few seconds, while his coworker was standing right there and watching.

Everyone knows he has a girlfriend. He's been with her for a couple years now.

What's the deal with him? Does he just not care that his coworkers know he has a girlfriend and is flirting with someone else? It doesn't exactly look good... I know he loves his career and wants to move forward.

Do you think he's actually having more serious feelings for me? Or am I being naive?

He already has a girlfriend... I promise my first born that I'm not going to do anything about it even if you say yes (I'm just curious what guys think), but I noticed he stares at me constantly at work. He always turns to look at me as he leaves, and also comes up to my desk frequently to say hello. He gave this man that was flirting with me the dirtiest look, like he wanted to punch him. Sometimes he looks at me with this weird expression, like he wants to say something but is holding back. Also, occasionally he'll stop talking and just lock eyes with me and smile very softly. When I was walking with him, he walked so closely behind me like he wanted to put his arm around me.

We had our Christmas party last weekend, and I turned to look around the room, and he was already staring at me. He held the stare and didn't look away until I did. When I would glance back over at him he'd still be staring, and he had that weird expression on his face, a mix of sadness and holding back or something. If I were his girlfriend I'd wonder why...

She was there and I noticed them dancing later in the night, he was smiling down at her and I guess he did seem like he was in love.

Do you think he likes me?

He has a girlfriend so I'm not going to do anything about it even if you say yes (I'm just curious what guys think), but I noticed he stares at me constantly at work. He always turns to look at me as he leaves, and also comes up to my desk frequently to say hello. He gave this man that was flirting with me the dirtiest look, like he wanted to punch him. Sometimes he looks at me with this weird expression, like he wants to say something but is holding back. Also, occasionally he'll stop talking and just lock eyes with me and smile very softly. When I was walking with him, he walked so closely behind me like he wanted to put his arm around me.

We had our Christmas party last weekend, and I turned to look around the room, and he was already staring at me. He held the stare and didn't look away until I did. When I would glance back over at him he'd still be staring, and he had that weird expression on his face, a mix of sadness and holding back or something. If I were his girlfriend I'd wonder why...

She was there and I noticed them dancing later in the night, he was smiling down at her and I guess he did seem like he was in love.

Do you think he likes me?