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Many years ago, i had a beautiful, loving, scaring and genuine girlfriend.
i can honestly say there is or was no one like her, girls like her are very rare.

Anyway, about 2 years into our relationship. i became emotionally unstable.
Try as i might i couldnt change. i hurt her, terribly. i never meant to, but i did.
i cheated on her with her own sister, i hit her, swar at her.

Eventually, she left (not that i blame her, i always wished her well). i never made contact with her for 7 years. Yesterday, i found out that she died from a very aggressive form of cancer, aged just 28 years old. She married her long term boyfriend before she died, she was with him for 7 years also.

I was and still am in shock. I still remember our first date, how she smelled so incredible, what she wore, and even what we talked about. that was 12 years ago.

I want to visit her grave, and tell her how sorry i am. She made me a better person by leaving, and she protected herself, i dont doubt that. I think if i could ask Emma now if i could visit her grave, she would say no, but i also think she would say "But if it would make you feel better"

I am now happily married to another woman, who reminds me of Emma in every way. Smart as hell, funny, unassuming, loving and devoted... im just a different man. Emma changed my life, and i will always be grateful.

What do i do?

My ex-girlfriend was dating a black guy and her parents disapproved so they helped me get full custody. We went to court and because of her family's testimony I got full custody of our 4 year old daughter. Her family lied and said she was unstable and unfit to be a parent, and was dating a bad guy. Her parents coached their granddaughter to say she was afraid and that her mom was dating a "bad man."

My daughter views my new girlfriend as more of her mom figure and calls her mommy, and my new girlfriend is good with children so she treats my daughter like she was her own. My daughter hasn't seen her biological mother in more than three months now. She calls my new girlfriend mommy.

My ex-girlfriend is really upset and depressed, and I'm moving to my girlfriend's country. My ex-girlfriend will really miss her and says she'll never forgive me or her family for what we did in Court.

I also think my my daughter will have a better time in a singular racial household and she will have a better life in Europe.

Do you think I'm a bad person or do you think it's okay?

My ex's family approve of me taking her overseas and they tell me they will support me 100% in court so I can continue to get full custody. They told me if their daughter continues to ignore their requests to date and marry a White guy then they will disown her and do everything in their power to make her an "outcast" and prevent her from ever seeing any of her siblings (they want their inheritance. My ex-girlfriend's grandparents and parents wrote her out of their Will). They also want her to never see our daughter and have told me even if I feel bad for her, that it is in their granddaughter's best interest to never see her biological mother.