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So I dated a guy who put me through hell...
We moved in together after a break up because the lease was already pending. Found out he got a gf in another state. I told him he had to tell her the living situation or I would. He refused. Two weeks into living together he told me he was falling in love with me. I told him that he shouldn't say another word until he breaks up with her, if he chooses to do so. He said he wanted to in person, and she had bought him a flight.

The day he flew out came around. I brought him to the airport. He spent a little less than a week up there and she found out about me in the midst of the trip. Drama.
(I wasn't "with" him like that. She just knew I was his ex)

Anyways, he comes home. Doesn't want to talk about it. Calls her names like a child and apologizes for leaving me.
Yet he remained in contact when it was supposed to be me and him only. I got fed up with his lame excuse and said either she is pregnant or gave you an std, which is it?
Ends up she was pregnant.

Drama.

So I had no place to go and he refused to move up north with her and back home. I saw him fall apart. My name was on the lease. He told her that I wouldn't let him take his name off the lease and was holding him there. lol I even asked her to take over the lease so they could start their family, no.

A few months past and I told him I had to move home and he had to move with her and at least try it. He was about to be a dad. He eventually took on the idea. Prior to his leave he got a drug possession offense in my car. <20g marj. nbd. don't insult.
So we knew we were going to have to meet again soon for court. I wanted to help and make sure he was good.

His girl bought him a ticket so he didn't have to see me at all but in court. He still saw me. He lied about the ticket and had all his things packed to leave her and be home with me. I didn't know. On the way home, I drove, he lied about the flight, I got into an accident.

Updates!!!

Lately I've been loving looks with heavier eye makeup and nude lips. Assuming all of these eye makeup looks come with no lip makeup or a light pink/peach/beige lip, what do you prefer for every day, date night, etc.?

I had some guys tell me they liked me better with no makeup before, but when I didn't wear makeup for one guy he admitted he wanted me to look that way to be "less intimidating." It gets me upset when guys scrutinize my makeup choice with a "I'd like to see your natural beauty" then tell me they wanted me to look worse on purpose to make them feel less small. -.-

So, I want honest opinions!

Here are the choices with example links:

There's natural (just mascara and maybe a nude eyeshadow, especially for ladies with light lashes that need to be colored): link

"Natural" eyeliner (super thin lines at the lash line, can be with or without a light nude eyeshadow) link

Smoky (dark eyeshadow in different shades around the eye) :

light smoky: link

Dark smoky: link

Eyeliner all the way around (can be cat-eye like) : link

Cat eye (just the top lid): link

Or a hybrid (lighter brown eyeshadow as a liner, beige eyeshadow at the corners): link

Thanks!