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So my boyfriend and I have some communication issues, and I frequently feel as though I'm putting in more effort than he is anymore... we had an argument over the weekend that blew up way bigger than it should have, it started earlier in the week over something stupid and he chose to try and argue with me about it over text while I was sick in bed with a stomach bug... (he was aware of this) finally that calms down not resolved still though, then over the weekend we had plans to attend a baby shower for my sister (note he's known about this for at least a few months) and he decides the day before that he wants to cancel on me and not go. why? he works till 4am the morning before and won't get enough sleep (we don't need to start driving till noon and he can sleep in the car so he'd get 6ish hours of sleep) Now note there have been multiple occasions in the past that I've worked till 6-7am gone home slept till noon (4-5ish hours sleep) then driven an hour to go see him stayed with him till 3am then driven an hour back home no complaint. I would never even consider asking him to do something I wouldn't do for him... He decides to get his roommates opinion and she says that I am asking WAY too much of him and shouldn't have even thought of inviting him when he has work the night before! (also note he gets PTO hours and could have used a couple so he'd get a little more sleep, I also offered he could sleep at my place which is closer to his work and our destination, and offered to pick him up from his place) He ends up deciding to stay awake and just drink energy drinks through the whole thing... Long story short a couple days after the shower we go out for a date and end up in a big blow up over something small and he throws all of this as well as many other things that he had never mentioned any issue with in the past into my face. he then drove me home and stormed off. He hasn't spoken to me since. Parents say I should wait for him to text me, my friend disagrees