Things I Am Confused To Prefer In Girls

[YourFutureEx]

My take on my preferences in my partner

Hello all the beautiful ladies and the fellow confused gentlemen. We all want a partner. The one, we'd spend the rest of our life with. But he/she must be eligible for that and we deserve a better person. Who is almost, perfect. We all have our own requisites, desires and preferences. Some are rigid while some are temporary or just undecided. I'm going to talk about the latter one.

Bangs or no bangs?

First thing first. This is the most confusing thing. Should I prefer bangs on my girl or no bangs? Girls just look fascinating with or without them. Sometimes I wish my partner had bangs while sometimes I wish she just had normal hairstyle. I can never decide my preference on this. Can you decide if JLaw looks better with bangs or not? Me neither.

Ethnic or Modern wear?

Not gonna lie, I have a thing for skirts and hot pants, but as our elders say, nothing can beat the sexiness of a traditional dress and I pretty much agree. Should she wear revealing/skinny/casual clothes to turn me on and make my friends jealous or should she wear conservative clothes that will keep pretty secrets only for me? Maybe she can wear both on different occasions, but I have to say, I cannot prefer only one out of them. PS: Ladies, please don't start my body, my choice arguments.

Eye colour

Tell a girl how beautiful her eyes are, she'll tell you that how admirable gentleman are you. Eyes have different shapes, sizes and colours. Personally, shape and size doesn't matter to me that much but her eye colour holds my interest. While I adore her beatific eyes, I get mesmerised in the thoughts if those hazel eyes are as vigorous as those blue eyes were?

Height

I'm 5'10" and I'm one of those who like shorter women. I mean why not? Is it hot when she raises her heels to reach to your head or when she calls you to pick that box over there? I like tall women so, my preference range is 5'6" to 5'8". 5'6" means she'll always be shorter than me, but 5'8" is risky sometimes when she'll wear heels. If you are over 5'8" and I still like you, you can predict that I'm lost inside you.

Her Abs

Everyone digs hard-working partner. Her abs is the evidence. Fitness is sexy, but you don't need those toned/ripped/jacked (or whatever you call it) abs to be fit. Abs can be very attractive but their touch doesn't feel that good. I like soft girls and somewhat who don't have those ab lines on stomach. But the thought of having a girl who is so fit that you can brag "My girl got abs!" is very delighting.

Race

Every race has its own perks. I don't have much to say as you all can understand this topic. Can I have a woman who has features of a white girl, body of a black girl and hair of Asian girl please? Impossibru... I know I'm not that lucky.

Specs/Glasses

I don't like to wear specs even my doctor recommended me to because I think this is imperfection. But they look so good on girls that I question my insanity sometimes. It can make an average girl go attractive. Girls look shy, nerdy, bookworm, passionate, secretive, professional and classy when they wear them. So, why I just don't strictly prefer them? Imperfection (I told you already lol).

Shy or Bold?

I'm introvert so, a bold girl may complete my voids, but I'm dominant in relationship, so maybe a shy girl would be a better choice? I like both types of girls. I think at the end of the day, the best girl would be a shy girl who's very confident and open in front of me or a loud girl who's shy only around me for some reason?

Marks/Tattoos

I'm not a fan of tattoos. I don't like them, but little tattoos don't hurt and if they look good and are on interesting place, they can do wonder. Even a mole or scar would do the trick. Being the only person after her parents who know the secret is such an amazing experience. While tattoos might give a sl*tty feeling and it's a risky thing, plus it needs a good imagination and skill, I don't strictly prefer this. And scars are painful while moles ruin clear skin so, these things come with a little bit limitations.

Big Boobs or Small Boobs?

I won't go into details because I don't want to make this a sexual take. Both are fine. Fine? Awesome! Small boobs are good because they are easier to hold, both in hands and orally while bigger ones will make you look better in outfits and confident. At the end of the day, the best boob size for a guy is the one he has in his hands.

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Thank you so much for reading. Hope you enjoyed it. This take is not meant to offend anyone, if it did directly or indirectly, I apologise in advance.

What about you? What are your turn-ons you're most confused about? And girls, why are you so captivating? How do you decide to keep yourself? Share your thoughts. I would love to hear from you.

Game on folks, believe!

[Spiorad_Aisce]

Great take - I think you are confused as the rest of us - There are a few of us that have a rigid type (are they lucky or have they just narrowed their options) - I will do my Old Father Time act here but I have been around a long time and when I find myself cornered into my describing my type, my brain says logically I would go for "A/B/C" personality and lower down a part of my body says I would go for "D/E/F" lookswise. So why then does my heart often fall for someone in the G to Z range.
The heart/soul is the most misunderstood, most complicated thing in the human body which is why it is also the most magnificent thing in the body. I gave up trying to work it out a long time ago preferring to go surprise me. I don't know (IF/WHEN) I will fall for someone again, what they will be like? Let's face it, life is complicated enough without adding to it. Let's be positive, if you fall in love with them and they you, they will be the most beautiful looking and have the most amazing personality (well to you anyway but that is all that counts) in this instance beauty and personality is in the eye of the beholder.

[YourFutureEx]

Wow thank you so much for reading and giving a brilliant input :)

[Anonymous]

For me it's like this:

1. Bangs or no bangs? Irrelevant, I like both.
2. Ethnic or Modern wear? Neither, I prefer casual and sporty wear.
3. Eye colour - It doesn't matter, there are lots of pretty girls of all eye colors.
4. Height - I like tall girls, even taller than me, but that doesn't mean that I dislike short girls... there are lots of attractive girls of all heights.
5. Her abs? Yes, I definitely love girls with abs.
6. Race - Not important, there are lots of hot girls of all races.
7. Specs/Glasses - NO, it's a turn off for me, it's just natural selection, I don't want our kids to inherit the bad eyesight... that's why I prefer girls with good eyesight.
8. Shy or Bold? Definitely bold, I never liked shy girls... it wouldn't work because I'm too shy and introverted... that's why I prefer self-confident, dominant and assertive girls.
9. Marks/Tattoos - Not that much important, it can be sexy sometimes... depends on the girl.
10. Big Boobs or Small Boobs? I don't care, I'm more of a face & legs man.

[YourFutureEx]

Yeah there are so many thing we like "both" :)
Thanks for your input :) really appreciate it.

[Opinion Owner]

You're welcome :D

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for the MHO

[Stacyzee]

I don't think you're confused. You sound like you have realistic expectations in appearance :) You don't have a preference, you're open!

[YourFutureEx]

This makes sense. Thanks :)

[UnknownXYZ]

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"I like tall women so, my preference range is 5'6" to 5'8". 5'6" means she'll always be shorter than me..." He has a preference...

[YourFutureEx]

@UnknownXYZ
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As far as I can read... I have also written that " If you are over 5'8" and I still like you, you can predict that..."
Means it's still pretty much permissive to deduce like that.

[UnknownXYZ]

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So are trying to say that you don't have a preference? If not, then my point stands and Stacyzee is wrong.

[Stacyzee]

@UnknownXYZ a preference only stands if he is completely willing to disregard those that do not meet his standards. Since , he seems open to those outside of that imaginary box , I would regard him as not having a preference.
Realistically , as humans it's impossible for certain physical traits to appeal to us , however many of us won't disregard someone just because they didn't meet that standard , those that do , have a preference.

[Stacyzee]

*it's impossible for certain physical traits to NOT appeal to us

[UnknownXYZ]

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Wait, what? That's not the meaning of the word preference. After countless of definitions of the looking up the word, I have yet to see one that defines it as you state it. They all say that a preference favouring one over the other for whatever reason. Disregarding something isn't part of the definition of preference but rather could be a consequence for someone's preference.

To reiterate, having a preference doesn't mean you disregard anything. It just means what you prefer.

[Stacyzee]

I can have a preference for chicken and eat steak everyday. When I do that , I am open minded because I am not excluding things because it doesn't hold up to the standards I prefer.
This is simple logic and basic comprehension.

[UnknownXYZ]

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Meaning that you do have a preference. "You don't have a preference, you're open!" You can have a preference and be open. The fact that he directly said he prefers something immediately means he has a preference. Whether he is open or not has nothing to do with determining whether he has a preference or not.

[YourFutureEx]

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You have no limits @UnknownXYZ

[SomeGuy37]

If appearance is what matters, I want a natural red-haired Irish lass, her hair braided in an elegant 'crown' befitting the Lady she is, wearing a plaid skirt of her clan, and a wool cable-knit sweater, piercing green eyes, glasses, and a sharp, no-nonsense way of talking!! Maybe a single, simple tattoo, meaning something, in a private place, tiny, perfect little pink nipples for breasts, but REALLY smart, working on something like solving Global Warming, or feeding starving children, or stopping poaching of endangered species!!
Someone that makes me need to be a better man, to feel worthy of being with her!!

[YourFutureEx]

This is such an awesome combination you put :D I liked it :) Thanks for taking your time.

[chimeara]

No bangs I have always disliked bangs. They look like a messed up hair cut to me. Ethnic and modern and be equally attractive. It isn't so much the color as the soul looking back at your through the eyes. Height isn't important. A fit core is sexy but so is a core with some pounds to spare I really like slightly chubby. Race is irrelevant every color and race has beauty. Glasses or not both can be attractive. I don't like shy if a woman is shy she may have trouble expressing what she wants and needs but too bold can be a turnoff too. Tattoos really depend on where and what. Size of breast really depends on the frame.

[Evil_Chuck]

1. Bangs or no bangs depends on the girl.
2. Casual and modest clothes.
3. Blue or gray. Not that I rule out other eye colors.
4. My height or shorter.
5. I don't fixate on features like "abs," but being in good shape is always nice.
6. White.
7. I think glasses look beautiful on girls.
8. Shy. I don't understand extroverts at all.
9. Not a fan of tattoos.
10. Small.

Disclaimer: my last girlfriend was black, with brown eyes, slightly taller than me, no glasses, dressed boldly, and didn't exercise. In summary, I do have a type... but in reality, it doesn't matter when the right person comes along.

[Azara]

you us elf the word 'should' is weird. there's no should there should who people are and if you're into i or not. she's not 'supposed' to look like anything for you. she looks how she prefers and you prefer it or you don't.

i don't see there point int this take. you are free to like what you like. there's no right way to ver attracted to anyone. though if i were short id want to know a guy was into that bc he liked to feel dominant.

[YourFutureEx]

You CLEARLY missed the point.

[Prof_Don]

I am the same when it comes to the abdominals of a woman. It is cool for her to work out and all, but I can't lie; I like the softness of a woman with some extra cushioning. Turns me on so much! :)

[YourFutureEx]

Haha yeah. Unfortunately, we will have to compromise and take one side in the end :D
Thanks for reading :)

[SunsetRose]

This is really great. It shows females that men are more open than stereotypes lead us to believe.

[YourFutureEx]

EXACTLY! That was my real intent to write this. Unfortunately, readers didn't get it and criticised me of not including personality traits. (While I indirectly praised the personality by devaluing outer appearance)

Thank you so much for reading and putting a salubrious feedback :)

[Anonymous]

1. Bangs please yes
2. Modern wear
3. Green eyes are sexy but all in all I don’t care that much at all
4. As long as she is shorter than me 6’ I’m happy
5. Don’t care about abs
6. white is my preferred race but find attraction in all
7. I like a woman in glasses it’s hot
8. Tattoos yes please
9. I like shy timid girls forsure

[IceEverest]

Where is personality?
If she is not good at heart I am not dating her.
A bad personality makes her dull and ugly.

And the topic should be " Things I Am Confused To Prefer In Girls in terms of looks"

I hope many guys will agree with me.
Sorry bhai.

[YourFutureEx]

Ha ha ha.
I'm NOT confused to prefer a girl with good personality. It's so obvious that I'll always prefer her. That's why I didn't include much from personality department.
This take was about good things which couldn't come together.
Thanks for constructive criticism tho :)

[IceEverest]

Best of luck.
And thankyou for taking the criticism positively.

[YourFutureEx]

Thanks for the luck but I don't think I've to be really lucky in order to find a compatible partner. It's a mutual thing and destiny will help too.
Cheers! :)

[IceEverest]

Cheers😊😊😊

[Kit_Kat88]

I enjoyed reading your my take. It seems people are taking it like you’re listing traits that are hardly attainable and superficial haha

[YourFutureEx]

Haha yeah. Thanks for reading ^_^

[Chief16]

Or get someone multifaceted. I'd just prefer myself a funny, loyal lass.

[YourFutureEx]

So obvious. You're boring :P

[Chief16]

Extremely.😉

[YourFutureEx]

Are loyal lass rare?

[Chief16]

Rarer than unicorns.

[YourFutureEx]

Such a sad world you live in. Unfortunately.

[Chief16]

Well, as long as they're not extinct...

[YourFutureEx]

I mean seriously. Are you a victim?

[Chief16]

Victim of?

[YourFutureEx]

Cheaters.

[Chief16]

Oh yeah totally. I still don't know how to shoot through walls in CS:GO.

[lolatyou]

"Oh yeah totally. I still don't know how to shoot through walls in CS:GO."

hahaha

[Chief16]

@lolatyou 😂 well yeah. I've been cheated on. Not the greatest feeling in the world.

[ThisDudeHere]

One can not be confused in what they prefer. Either you find it attractive or you don't. You won't fool your own brain.

[YourFutureEx]

You like both vodka and wine, but at the end of the day, you'll pay for just one.

[ThisDudeHere]

Yes and that will mean I like one more than the other.

[YourFutureEx]

People change a lot. Milk to coke to wine to poison.

[lolatyou]

I like how they all revolve around appearances solely lol

[YourFutureEx]

Personality is pretty much clearer topic. Either you're good at something or bad. I still managed to add one about personality tho.

[KiaTate]

A black body, white features, and Asian hair? That's a lot. 😆

[YourFutureEx]

I'm very optimistic. Like very very... very optimistic 😁

[KiaTate]

Good luck with that

[skeptic007]

im thinking the same thing GOOD LUCK lol

[KiaTate]

@skeptic007 I hope he realizes that black women have different body types.

@YourFutureEx you do know black women have different body types right? 😆

[YourFutureEx]

White women have extremely distinct features and not all Asians have same type of hair too. I can just hope people to catch what I was saying or referring to.
These preferences are not even serious and strict. I don't live in fantasies.

[DruBiEN]

Thats one amazing myTake. *whistles*

[YourFutureEx]

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[DruBiEN]

Stopped already xD xD lol
That picture.

[lostMahou]

What is there to be confused about? You like girl, you go after girl. Hopefully she's happy.

[Liam_Hayden]

Unless she resembles Jabba The Hut I go for the personality.

[MoneyBeets]

I'm not confused by women because I have Jesus and know what I want in a woman.

[YourFutureEx]

Everyone has Jesus

[MoneyBeets]

not unless Satan is your daddy

[YourFutureEx]

Hmm no one has Jesus then

[MoneyBeets]

Wrong

[RolandCuthbert]

None of it matters if she is not intelligent.

[YourFutureEx]

Preferences for intelligent girls is so obvious, it's not worth mentioning. But I agree with you.

[RolandCuthbert]

Not for some of the guys I hang out with.

[YourFutureEx]

They prolly just want sex. If that's the case, I don't care about intelligence either. But if I am expecting a long term relationship, intelligence is a must, otherwise it'd be painful to keep up with their personality.

If they don't care about the intelligence in the long term relationships either, I don't think they'll live a satisfactory life. They'll miss out a lot what intelligent girls can offer.

[mikemx55]

hello fellow 9gagger :P

[YourFutureEx]

Ahoy matey :D

[mikemx55]

Same username as in this gag?

[YourFutureEx]

Nah. I don't use it that much tbh. Just on and off.

[mikemx55]

Well... then someone has your gag username on 9gag :p

[YourFutureEx]

Oh seriously? LOL that's interesting 😀

[mikemx55]

9gag. com/u/yourfutureex
And he's made no posts, just upvotes...

by the way, mine is the same as this gag

[YourFutureEx]

Ok I'll check it out :) thanks!

[Anonymous]

Guys are getting picky these days :P

[YourFutureEx]

I thought this take would make girls think otherwise 😅

[Opinion Owner]

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