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I came across a really offense prank video recently. The guy in the video decided to prank his girlfriend by calling her ugly. She started crying & responded by saying, "well y would u even want to be together with me if you don't find me attractive?" He responded by saying, "I've always dated girls for personality, I have unfortunately never gotten the chance to date anyone who is hot", but of course this was all a lie for the prank, in reality he does think of her as the most beautiful woman he has ever seen, and is in fact the very reason he asked her out from the beginning. He concluded the video by saying this to her in an attempt to make her feel better (she was still pretty mad at him tho)
Now of course the video got a lot of backlash in the comments, saying that he had gone way too far even if it all wasn't true. I am also quite offended, but for a much different reason. When she said "y r u even with me if you don't find me attractive" I don't think she realized that this statement basically claims that anyone who is ugly, or even just average looking in real life, has no chance in getting a relationship. I know for fact that Im ugly. This isn't just a matter of bad self esteem anymore, I legitimately look like an fn swamp-thing/drunken zombie compared to the average girl of today. The only possible way that I could ever get a boyfriend, is if he loved girls for personality only. According to this video & current media ingeneral, the idea of finding an individual appealing, solely based on what's inside just doesn't happen. Sorry to be hypocritical, but I contribute to this possible stereotype, but most likely inevitable part of being human. I have only ever had a crush on a cute boy. Never have I had a crush on someone with average appearance, yet somehow I feel entitled to attention from somebody gorgious, with no more then an average complection myself. It just doesn't work. Pls add to the poll, or comment below about ur thoughts. Thanks.

Sorry for a sensitive question...
There is a meetup in town this weekend for interracial dating singles and I was doing too much over analyzing ha ha. I want to look the most attractive to non-black men, but black girl features are reported to be ugly, especially our hair.
The guy in the picture is 100% the style / type of white men I find sup sexy! His partners hair is in a fro, which is my fav style, which honestly surprised me.
The 'statistics' dont match up here. Anyway, I have a really nice dress, heels but couldnt decide if I should straighten my hair to be more, um, relatable? Or to just go full out, afro and African tribal earrings lol? Forgive me if it is a silly question, but we are literally deemed the most unattractive race for our features, and this is my first time putting myself out there to the race of men I like.

Also, do you feel most attracted to the ethnic differences of the races you like? Or do you feel more comfortable if they are more relatable?
(ex, a very traditional East Asian girl vs an Americanized East Asian girl)

I find our differences to be most attractive, like how white men's hair texture is different, their voices and way they carry themselves compared to the "swag" lol of my race I grew up around.

Id find a white guy who dressed, spoke and acted like a black guy to be unattractive - even if he is good looking.

~My favorite likes about white men is their beautiful eyes, more subtle persona, and that smile makes me weak everytime!
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Thanks for help and reading!