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Background: I’ve been spending time with a new guy for a little over a month now, getting to know each other. When he picked me up for a date, I noticed a custom trinket that he has hanging from his rear view mirror. I looked at it closely and it had a “drive safe” message engraved with a girl’s name and a heart on it. I asked him about it and he said it was from his ex.

I was taken aback because I don’t personally keep gifts from exes, especially something that seems sentimental. He told me a bit about her and that things didn’t necessarily end on a bad note, they just ended up wanting different things but they’re cool with each other. Jokingly I told him that he probably still has feelings for her, then he told me if that were the case, we wouldn’t be seeing each other.

I only ever really hear about issues with women keeping jewelry from exes but out of curiosity for the men, is keeping something like this, a custom gift that you probably look at regularly, a big deal? Or this probably means nothing?

I am not trolling*

So I am getting a lot of intense mocking STILL after the altercation I had in Starbucks a couple of weeks ago. Long story short a girl came in I knew from college whos ex I was seeing, asked for a chair randomaly so I told her to get lost.

We argued for literally only 30 seconds or so over her being jealous and she mocked my tan and refereed to be as a "Dorito". So I grabbed her hair for a couple of seconds like I grabbed it from behind and she like stood on my foot and spun and pushed a cream pie/cake in my face. But that was it, wasn't a punch or knockout or long fight.

I am getting consant cream, pieface, pudding jokes, my mother coudnt stop laughing hwen she picked me up. Since mocked over dinner the other night with desert. Am I right to be annoyed, and not see this as any kind of fight just a small altercation?