This chick broke us up for her self ego and my ex boyfriend has no idea? Will he ever realise his mistake?

Sounds like u were the rebound chick. He must of actually wanted her but settled for you and once an opportunity for her came he jumped on it. So I'd say you didn't lose anything. He wouldn't of been much of a boyfriend to you when someone else was clearly a better catch to him. You sound like your more self aware than him so its more his loss not yours.
Ya that sounds right. I can’t believe he lied to me saying I was no rebound and it wasn’t like that. He probably wasn’t aware of the fact and just realised it later on? I did forgive him and told him we shouldn’t have dated along with telling him I shouldn’t have come midway. I don’t talk to him tho he’s on my insta which is true but that’s that. Also this chick all of a sudden started acting super nice to me. I played along to find out stuff and oh boy I found out a lot. Can’t believe people like this exist just to break others up for ego.
Yea I had someone do that with an ex also. Made me laugh because I was like dude if u can't see how much better I am than her your just dumb af n not worth my time.
Surprising to know how common this is. Boys really are dumb.
It’s unusual how some things work out & maybe this was meant to happen & she was meant to break you two up. Move forward, you can do better.
Ya I agree. Maybe this was meant to end and teach me how immature and indecisive some people can be no matter how understanding and forgiving others are. I’m happy to move on knowing I didn’t lose anything worth saving.
Probably not as he still decided to break up with u himself at that point if it was bot her it could have been anyone
What do you mean? He told all his friends that he couldn’t stop thinking about her after she was texting him the way she was.
Well then why did he persuade me for a year and a half before that. Trying super hard to get me to talk? He really really tried hard and asked all my friends about me. Would you say all of that was just some chase thing?
I don’t agree with the part where you said he might not have been committed or left for another girl. He was confused and immature considering age and also long distance. There are many people who take the wrong decisions to later realise. my gut says he did love me at one point but later really wanted out to be with this girl, her talk definitely infatuated this boy. But I do agree with he wouldn’t have ended it if he cared enough. This actually made me think a bit and made me realise I would never want to be with someone who wouldn’t give me time and appreciate what they had. So thank you
I do agree with that. That’s exactly why I didn’t go after her once it ended. The majority of the blame would definitely fall on him in respect to what happened to me. Her talking that was opened my eyes and showed me the kind of guy I was dating. He didn’t even deal with the breakup maturely. Shows our relationships wouldn’t have lasted with someone who lies so much. It’s hard when emotions are involved cause I actually liked this guy and so knowing someone sabotaged it kind of hurts and makes you think if he knows what he’s putting himself through. I get why the post must have come out insensitive but these things are super complicated.
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I’m not sure how long is it been now
It’s been a year
He does text me once in a while asking how I am but it’s very hard for me to continue any conversation keeping in mind what happened. He once left me on seen after talking for a while. I don’t know what’s going on in his head. But don’t you think he should come forward if he has anything? There is also this other guy who likes me and is in the same circle as him. We have gotten close but not dating. Maybe that’s playing a role too? My ex supposedly talks to this guy a lot now after he found out about us talking.
what a shit show :D
I really do need to stop caring don’t I 😬
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