Cheating Ex girlfriend acting like nothing has happened?

[Anonymous]

I was in a relationship with this girl for 4 years and during the course of those years; she has emotionally cheated, made out with some dude, and gone the whole way with another (whom she is with now). She finally confessed to it all after she dumped me insinuating what happened was my fault, and that I was not good enough for her. This was 8 months ago and I spent 7 of those months eliminating her from my life and heal through the no contact method.

I was not the perfect boyfriend, but I never once even came close to cheating on her.

So here is the kicker, after all these months, why would she send me a very cheerful email acting like nothing happened, saying she is thinking about me, and asking how I'm doing? Is this her plan to reopen old wounds? I'm confused and angry.

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Thanks for the responses guys.


p.s. My friend tells me all of our pics are still on her main profile pictures page on fb. All of our old lovey dovey intimate pictures are still up there. Any reason for this?

[hoops60691]

There really is no way to know. She could feel guilty for acting the way she did or maybe things ended with her boyfriend and she is trying to make it happen with you again. Honestly, she never really loved you enough if she cheated on you. The best thing to do would be to not respond to her email and just move on. I know how hard it is. BELIEVE ME! However, one day you will meet a girl that loves you unconditionally and would never cheat on you. Keep your options open, but realize that you deserve the best and any girl that does not meet your standards- kick her to the curb! Good luck :)

[MEHEllie]

oh this girl is a bitch! its quite ovisly the guy she is with is a gerk and messing her around and she wants to go back with you because you were a nice guy!

and don't worry hun there is no such thing as the prefect boyfriend prefection is in the eye of the beholder! email her back saying F*** YOU don't email me again and go out and find yourself a girl who makes you smile when she's with you!

[Anonymous]

Ignore evil bitches like her. Don't give her the satisfaction of any kind of response. She probably got dumped by the d***wad who she thought was better then you. Always remember that. She will do it again.

[Anonymous]

maybe she's just an evil biatch that wants you to suffer