Girlfriend Catching Up with Ex?

[Elijahsimono]

My girlfriend recently told me she was gonna meet her ex to catch up. Her ex contacted her about catching up. I told her it’s okay as long as it’s not a consistent thing they do. Weird thing is for me is she’s talked about so many negative things about this guy and then why he wants to “catch up” she tells me he’s not that bad? I just can’t wrap my head around that what’s y’all’s opinion?

[8UniquelyBoring8]

It is natural to feel uneasy and confused when your partner talks about meeting with their ex. However, if you trust your partner and their intentions, then it is important to communicate your concerns with them openly and honestly. It is also important to understand that sometimes people can change or reconcile past issues, and it is possible that your girlfriend may genuinely want to catch up with her ex as just friends. However, if you feel uncomfortable with the situation, it is within your right to express your feelings and establish boundaries that work for you and your relationship.

[devilish-cutie]

if she needs some clouser okay but if she wants to meet w him like that again than definitely its not ok and you should tell her

[DextroShade]

This is completely unacceptable and she's probably going to bang the guy. I would have told her that if she goes to meet the ex she might as well get back together with him because we are through. I would not take a woman seriously who has contact with exes.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

I recently had a talk with my girl that I don't want her in touch with her ex at all, as I show her the same respect.
Be assertive and lay down the law man. Any good woman worth having will understand. Some just need to know it's important to you

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Give a woman an inch, she'll take a mile

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Of course he was the one trying to be friends. Not the other way around

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Oh and if she is cool about it, make sure to show her you appreciate her by doing something nice for her. Positive reinforcement lol

[Spade_01]

There's no place of an ex in your present life. Dump her.

[In_Trance]

Grounds for divorce