My ex-girlfriend cheated and now I'm ignoring her. How do you think she feels?

[BleedInternal]

She calls me late at night and sends me texts like "I think about you every second" and "I miss everything about you" but I'm not budging. It's hard as hell because I truly loved her, but cheating is a deal breaker for me. As much as I want to answer her calls, respond to her texts, or even contact her myself, I know it's useless because I'll never take her back.

I'm still healing, but resisting contact with her is definitely helping me move on. How do you think she is feeling right now? Especially since it's all her fault.

Damn that cheating whore...

[Jacobi]

"Damn that cheating whore..."

Either way, if you did not react this way then she would think it was acceptable. So you have no choice but to act this way. Even if she is your wife you really have to act this way. The reason she is now begging you back is because you are acting like a REAL man, not a wimpy Mangina who says, "I forgive you, lets forget this happened" - if you reacted like that she will think you are pathetic miserable mangina and hate you and cheat on you again and use and abuse you like the mangina you are.

Good work mate.

"No final é tudo a mesma coisa, a busca intensa por forte emoções, e um otário em casa para pagar as contas "

(In the end it is all the same thing - the intense search for strong emotions, and one fool in the house for paying the bills)

Treat em mean, keep em keen.

I never had this problem until I started truly showing love to them. As soon as they know they have your undying heart they treat you like crap.

[Funkster76]

You have to just break if off and get on with your life. Cheaters cheat because its part of thier personality. THey will never change or at least I have never seen it in my life time yet.

The only thing that will happen if you get back together is more pain later on and forever.

Don't be upset with her because I think its like a sickness. That said there is also no sence in trying to change her because that won't happen either.

Sorry to hear it but good luck with future women.

[Kickrockslosers]

LOL, you're really hurting her and she feels stupid, especially if you are a great guy!

Bad Angel says: Now if you really want to get back at her get a hair cut, some different clothes and flirt with the hottest girls you can find. She will feel insecure and even more foolish for cheating especially if the girls are hotter than her. You could start dating a real slutty girl and treat her like a queen around your X. Trust me she will hate it even more LOL! Finally, you could take her back, treat the slutty girl better than her and give all of the perks you gave to the X to the slutty girl. That's my best bad thing to do that will make her angry and confused.

Good Angel says: you're doing the right thing by resisting contact with her and moving on. :-)

[Reeses-pieces777]

i honestly would totally not feel sorry for her if I was the guy

i'm a girl and my ex boyfriend cheated on me-i didn't give the manwhore a second chance, I walked away from the situation-i'm too good to be with a guy who I can't trust and I'm too good to be with someone who is going to treat me like dirt

so likewise for you, who cares how she feels. she probably regrets what she did. well, she should have thought about it in the first place. as an adult, you got to think about consequences. that's pretty basic

[Garcelle]

she is feeling like trash and she will probably call and bother you for years to come... I agree with you about cheating being a no-no... sooo, know that you did the right thing by moving on, better you move on from her than her move on from you... she's feeling dirty, like she wants to die, like if she could take it back she would but hey, NOT YOUR PROBLEM... for every cheater there's someone that will be faithful to you... be strong

[BleedInternal]

Reeses and Garcelle: thank you SO much for your advice. these are things I already know and feel on my own, but it's great hearing them reinforced, especially by women. she wanted to move in with me after college and eventually get married. ha! not to brag, but she'll never find someone like me ever again.

i get weak sometimes because I once loved her and because she's so hot, but I've realized that the girl I once knew no longer exists. I'm already dating a new girl. moving on. thanks!

[Gubar83]

Bro. Fuck that bitch. And not literally. Cheating whores are gonna be just that. I wouldn’t be too shocked to hear if she tried to blame the whole thing on you at one point. Let them bitches go. And when they hit the wall after 30+ years. They’ll actually take the time to figure out what went wrong. And you’re super lucky. She’ll realize she was the major problem all along. But at that point. You’ll have long forgotten here. If you were a good man to her there is nothing you need to feel bad about. A lot of people these days don’t give 2 shits about honor and loyalty.

[versusxiii]

You are definitely contributing to seeing that she treats her next guy better than she did you. If you're doing all this over one kiss (especially a drunken one), I would tell you to calm down a little. If he had sex with someone, especially more than once, that's just it. You two were only dating, this was not a marraige. If it was a marraige, I would tell you two to go to counseling to see that it really was not something that could be worked out.

But just a girlfriend? Leave her behind, you're better off.

[sumina7]

She probably does not feel any thing or remorse, because she is a manipulating, ruthless whore.

Any one with any remorse, would feel bad enough to apologize and say that she does not desreve you and would have left on her own.

She does not respect you and thinks that you are weak and gullible.

You should be feeling angry instead of getting tempted to respond to her.

[Anonymous]

I might go against the grain here.

Yeah, she cheated, but has she apologised? And how did she cheat?

It's a deal-breaker for you, sure, but I would hope you wouldn't expect forgiveness if you cheated on anyone.

If a girl is going out of her way to text you, and beg for you back, and is literally sacrificing her pride and dignity to do so, I think she deserves better than some guy who can't even pick up the phone. "Damn that cheating whore" just makes you sound pathetic.

Forgive. If you still love her, try to work things out. The world would be a much better place if men stopped putting their pride and ego above everything.

[rockmom]

hmm...the inconsistencies between you question and your comments discredits the question completely. you're either lying, lied to her or just not mentally stable.

[xxangel1990xx]

Lol, you are doing the right thing and she will be feeling like a dickhead and like she has messed up. She obvs doesn't feel so strongly about you or she wouldn't have ever cheated. She is a whore and you are better off without her.

[Anonymous]

Don't give her a chance. She is just a girlfriend, and if she can't respect you now, what makes you think she would change?

Damn that cheating whore.

[roadkingp]

serves you right, let her cheat on you more, since you cheated her so many times.

[JimSmits]

You should at least hit it one more time, then move on

[BleedInternal]

That's actually what I've wound up doing. I confessed to her that I've actually cheated on her six times total as opposed to her one time, so I don't seem like the little weakling running back to the girl who cheated on him. I've gotten mine too. with that said, we're not together at the moment, but we still have sex and I'm a lot more level-headed and less obsessed with her. the situation brings about problems sometimes but it's okay for the most part.

[JimSmits]

Hahaha, are you serious?

Explain to me how you have a right to be upset when she's cheated on you 20% as much as you have cheated on her. I don't agree with cheating in any case, but if you've cheated 6 times, she could bone the whole town, and as far as I'm concerned, you don't have a reason to be mad. What goes around does, in fact, come around.

[smellylittlecat]

I don't see why you have to get super mad at her because you just admitted that you cheated on her as well. :\ Guys and girls who cheat are whores.

[Gubar83]

Ok damn! Didn’t read the whole thing. You cheated on her 6 times? Dude you’re a peice if shit. Then you get all fucking butt hurt when she sends it back. Grow a pair man. And stop being so fuckin shitty to the women you date. Unfortunately there is isn’t much out there to not be a shitty dude. You gonna have to settle that on your own. Be a man. Let your intentions be known to them ladies. You might find one that’s ok with it (I doubt it). But you never know. Just don’t go cryin like a bitch and look for soul searching answers about something that YOU yourself did to the other person. That’s just a bitch ass pussy ass move man

[Mangamer]

Probably like a cheating whore.