Ex girlfriend current behavior?

[Anonymous]

Ladies I'm a bit confused right now on my ex girlfriend and how she is behaving since we still live together.
Long story short we dated pretty quickly about 2 years ago. We moved in pretty quick, which was my fault for pushing it. Ever since she broke up with me which was my fault mostly for not paying enough attention and having a negative attitude all the time from depression. Right now she is engaging with a catfisher from Nigeria which she thinks is a famous rapper. They are just stealing her money.
On to the behavioral question, right now she still acts like she cares about me then goes cold the next day. I know it's the hot cold mixed signals that can be lost in translation but she is in complete denial that she is talking to a scammer and keeps showing signs that she wants to get back together after I move out. I should also mention she has no friends and is pretty much stuck at home all the time with a 3 year old kid. So she is pretty well isolated from the world. With all this info could you ladies maybe she'd some light on weather my ex may be just playing with my emotions or could she be secretly trying to get me to chase her? I'm not good at reading body language or what the heck is going on.

[Changiis07]

I don't believe she could be doing this for you to chase her otherwise she wouldn't have broken up with you. Like you said you haven't paid attention to her so she is seeking it somewhere else. When in reality she should be taking care of herself and her daughter. So no I don't think she is doing for you to chase her. Sounds to me like you have some work to do on yourself as well. That way you don't rush a relationship so quickly where it will turn sour eventually from the depression. I hope you get out of your head and start looking at the positive and stop focusing on the negative, I also hope that you talk about what you're going through with others so you can take control of depression and not let it control you. It's all in your mind, try being more optimistic instead if dwelling in all the bad. Try to see the good in this world and try to enjoy life more and little things. Until you take care of you you won't be able to take care or pay attention to anyone you are with. We all go through depression but we come out of it

[Asker]

Thank you, yes I have started seeing a therapist gotten on antidepressants and do feel a lot better. Could it just be a silly mind game? Because the whole 2 year relationship she emotionally cheated on me by always talking about how hot other guys are and going as far as flirting in front of me I expressed my issue with this and she wouldn't stop which triggered my jealousy and then the depression hit.

[Changiis07]

I would not be playing games with someone I care about. I'm either in it or not. I would not want to disrespect my partner either saying other men are hot. If I choose to be with someone it's because I want to do life with that person. So no I don't think she is playing games but only you know since we are just going based on what you're telling us. I say she broke up with you so then let her go and find someone who will be there for you and respect you. Plus you expressed your issue and it did not stop so why be with someone who is not respecting you

[Asker]

Bet, thank you. That helped.

[Changiis07]

No problem