I am not trolling*So I am getting a lot of intense mocking STILL after the altercation I had in Starbucks a couple of weeks ago. Long story short a girl came in I knew from college whos ex I was seeing, asked for a chair randomaly so I told her to get lost.
We argued for literally only 30 seconds or so over her being jealous and she mocked my tan and refereed to be as a "Dorito". So I grabbed her hair for a couple of seconds like I grabbed it from behind and she like stood on my foot and spun and pushed a cream pie/cake in my face. But that was it, wasn't a punch or knockout or long fight.
I am getting consant cream, pieface, pudding jokes, my mother coudnt stop laughing hwen she picked me up. Since mocked over dinner the other night with desert. Am I right to be annoyed, and not see this as any kind of fight just a small altercation?
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Did I lose the "fight"? Was it even a fight or "Catfight"?
Why did you tell her to get lost after she asked for a chair? Am i missing some new lingo here?
Plus you're at work & you assaulted a customer by grabbing her hair after her insult, you're lucky you weren't fired on the spot. She was defending herself from YOUR physical assault on her person. A verbal argument doesn't justify you grabbing her.
Yep, you over reacted & she was retaliatory, just roll with the jokes because you made yourself the butt of them.
According to your story she wasn't talking shit until after you told her to leave, so you were the rude one in this instance. And as a restaurant employee, this is grounds for dismissal. You have no right to touch another person while on the job, you duke it out off the clock.
Well, I would get very annoyed by that and would have probably reacted quite agressively, but still, it's not good to keep thinking about it and it's not good that other people keep reminding you, but if you want closure, you should probably get some revenge and that would be that. Maybe you could do it legally, file a complaint about assault and battery, though if you started it, not sure how much will that count. Maybe throw some food or drink at her (as long as it's not hot), but that may get you in trouble. Don't know any other details that you might get her in trouble with, but if you can't find closure otherwise, then you could think of something.
This sounds almost exactly like a posted I saw years ago on here. I knew how it was going to go after only reading the first paragraph. Why are are you so worried about if you won or not?
Why does it matter if people refer to it as a fight, scuffle, altercation, dust up, melee, donnybrook etc? It seems like you are salty because you lost, and don't want to hear about anymore.
Because she basically got the last laugh , no one was making fun of her , but they made fun of you. I mean if we're talking about being the bigger person here , you definitely won by not retaliating, but because she retaliated she won.
Just a little fight... :D I love girls fights and unfortunately I didn't see this one. Guess that it was very embarrassing moment for you, but don't worry, you can revenge one day with cake. :D
@MiaHolton9919 You won't stay with her forever, I guess you'll leave her eventually, so don't worry about what she does or what other people think of you.
If you continue to care about what they say, they will start to care more about you. because you're angry, but if you don't do it, they'll stop messing with you after a while.
