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My best friend pat.
When his girlfriend and him were together we didn't do nothing together and we talk from time to time.. but nothing more then that. Plus I had a boyfriend at the time

But in oct his girlfriend didn't want to work out the relationship. . and that same day I wanted to work it out with my boyfriend but he ended it that day.

That same day me and pat both admitted our feelings for each other
Etc
Well he told his cousin that he will give us a chance but he needs to get away from the city we r living in rn. Because all they do is gossip and shit like that


Well.. then.. the day after I spent the night. Literally. He and his ex were back together.. and he fucking snap at me saying like how he and his girl were together etc. I'm just like ok whatever
And he said in a message he didn't even like me. And he wants to be with her and her only.

But it was like a wk after they got back together. He started to talk to me again etc

pat. literally just confused the shit out of me.

He and his cousin were talking about how the relationship should be like trust honesty communication. . no jealousy etc and he was eyeing at me the whole time.

And then he touched my arm not once not twice but three times

And then he touched my finger not once but twice

And then I touched his finger by a mistake. ..


And he opened the door for me not twice but 3 times.


And now he told his so called girlfriend he loved her.. but they hardly talk on the phone they text more.. then talk and then he says he is married to her. And wants to have kids with her.. I mean hell she not even there to even help him him out nor there for his baptism.

But a few years ago she was there for his mom funeral and they went to school together. And her mom is pressuring him to get back together ( and now they r back together.. ) but fuck his FB and her fb says they are single.


What was his actions telling me? .
My best friend thinks pat likes me.

But what do u think?

I met this guy through a mutual friend of mine ( actually it is her cousin ) . Let call him Wayne ( im protecting his name )
So wayne and I first met we both had a so. He had a girlfriend and I had a boyfriend. Well one day his girlfriend ended it with him because she didn't want to work it out and that same day but different time my boyfriend ended it with me because he only wanted to stay friends.

Well here is what been happening :
* I took his keys and he smiled about it
* He teased me with his keys saying here come get it when I'm short
* He let me have his keys till it was time for him to leave
* He bought me a shirt
* He told me I was sexy in the shirt
* We were sitting on the couch and he put his hat on my head and said I look sexy
* He called me beautiful
* We would kiss , hold hands , make love , etc
* The night that his girlfriend and my boyfriend broke up with us is the night he said I really like u and he loved it when I put my head on his shoulder and his cousin ask when we were sitting on the couch if it feels right and he said very.
* He would tickle me
* He always make sure I eat and if I don't he get very pissed because he doesn't want to see me hungry
* He always is protecting me and say I will never let anyone hurt u
* That is just a few good things.. 😊😊

Here is the other things :
* Told me that he was back with his ex and that I need to stop trying to get to him to date me when I did nothing wrong.
* Told me that he will never date someone that he doesn't know
* It will take years for him to get to know me
* When I was in the kitchen he called his ex on the phone saying hi wifey. I'm guessing he is trying to make me jealous. Good luck on that 😉
* That. I need to loose feelings for him
* That is just a few other things 😔😔😔🤔🙄
* He said he doesn't want to be with me he only want to be with his ex and he doesn't like me that way.

Soo I'm super confused on EVERYTHING actions one then words another