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So I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now
We stay at each others places
He stays at mine
I stay at his

Yesterday, he slept over
He was in the shower and his phone was on the bed
His phone pinged
And I thought it might be his family contacting him.. but it was a message from his ex fling
Saying
"What you doing babe?"

I was FURIOUS!
I confronted him about it and he denied that theyre talking and she just messaged out of no where

So he unlocked his phone and showed me the message
And it was only 1 message from her
No replies from him

I dont know what to believe

Why would a woman out of nowhere just text her ex fling?

The girl is the 2nd picture
she's unattractive

Why would he cheat ON me with her?

Ok, here is the basis for my question.

I belong to a really nice, full service health club in the large metropolitan area in which I live.

You can do everything from taking Yoga classes to playing tennis, racquetball, pickleball, basketball, to getting a massage, besides all the traditional workout classes, exercise machines, indoor and outdoor swimming pools, etc.

In the men's and women's locker rooms, they each have their own jacuzzi, sauna and steam rooms... not co-ed. And as such, nudity is allowed in those areas, as long as you at least sit on a towel of course. Not all clubs that have private facilities in the separate locker room areas like these allow nudity, some require bathing suits even though it is same sex areas, but ours is one of the exceptions that allows nudity.

From what I have heard from the guys is that about 50% of the guys use these private facilities in the nude, just using a towel to sit on, and about 40% in a bathing suit, and the remaining 10% with a towel kept wrapped around their waist.

In the women's locker room, it is a different story. About 60% have a shower/spa wrap and almost all the rest have a bathing suit, or at least a towel wrapped around themselves. Girls who use those private facilities nude are very rare and thus not very well perceived by many of the other women/girls using them.

Even though I am a nudist, I stay within the acceptable social norms and have a spa wrap that I use. I won't say that I have never go nude, especially when there are not as many members there, or I am with others that are doing it as well, but it is very rare.

So, what is your take? ... would you break the unspoken rules of female, or male, prudence... or would you stretch the boundaries to exceed basic common decorum?

... and why are the statistics so much different for males than it is for females?

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