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Me and my boyfriend were watching the circle, I commented on how I liked the girl's glasses to which he replied she looks like you but she's prettier. I was confused and shocked as I didn't comment on the girl's physical appearance, so I replied with "why would you say that?" He then said "what's wrong? it's just an observation" to which I replied : "I didn't ask for a comparison though I was complementing her glasses" he then was confused as to why I was bothered by the comment, and processed to tell me that if I told him someone was more handsome than he is, he wouldn't be upset and was like I don't know why you girls are so dramatic. To which I said any girl would be upset if her boyfriend out of the blue compared her to a girl and said they look similar but that she's not as pretty. Then he tried to cheer me up as he saw I was sad. I know there is a lot of people prettier than me, all of us have someone prettier than us, but I feel like he didn't have the need to say it out loud he could have kept it to himself, especially since he knows I'm insecure with my looks around him, we were friends before dating and he rated me a 6/10, once after having sex he said my boobs are a bit saggy and that I can workout to perk them up ( also without me asking and I never thought my boobs were saggy). Also I'm not his usual type as I know what kind of girls he likes. I've talked with him about all of this and he always reassures me that he finds me beautiful and cute which is hard to believe after hearing all his little comments about my looks and yesterday was the cherry.
Was I overreacting by being upset at his 'observation' ? Or were my feelings validated?

So I've had a friend for about 5 years. we've had our differences, usually we work it out.

My "friend" has been living a train wreck of a life that she's kinda forced on herself.
I usually set aside the fact that I feel like she's made a bad decision and try to help her through it.

But for starters, I lost my virginity to my boyfriend when I was 19, three months into our relationship. We've now been together for 4 years and we JUST got engaged this past weekend.
When I told this friend that I'd had sex (she'd never done it before either), she got a little "cold". All she said was is "I just don't understand why it couldn't wait for marriage." And essentially kinda made me feel bad for not waiting.
I ignored her for a few weeks, then she messaged me about HER boyfriend was cheating on her pretty blatantly. He'd go WEEKS without even sending her a TEXT. Nothing at all. And then randomly send her pictures of some half naked woman. Just to hurt said friend. So I felt bad for her, tried to talk to her, and I told her she needed out of that relationship. I tried to put it delicately, since she was "so in love." And she then SHE stopped talking to me.
Fast forward like 2 weeks and she tells me she had sex with him so he would cheat. (He didn't stop.) Well now 3 years later, I'm engaged, have a great job, just living my best life really.
3 years later for her is, she has had a baby with her cheater boyfriend. Not married or engaged, neither of them has a job, they don't even live together. Still with their parents.

When I told her I was engaged though she just couldn't be happy. Her exact words were "well me and John could be married by now, but there's just no point since we knows left we love each other".
So admittedly I snapped and replied "well that's so great that you changed your mind after you shamed me for having sex then turned around and had a baby with a guy you don't even live with."
She Left me on read and honestly I have nothing to say to her. AITA?