Boyfriend doesn’t know that I’m cheating with his best mate?

[Anonymous]

Well his best mate (friend) is my ex crush from university. We always had a thing but we suddenly lost contact. 10 years later I’m dating the boyfriend and it turns out they’re best friends. Needless to say I fucked the ex crush and we do it regularly behind his back and I’m not having sex with boyfriend much but I don’t want him to know. Advice please!!

[OlderAndWiser]

Go to the nearest state hospital and confess that you are an incurable sociopath in need of immediate commitment!

TROLL!

[Asker]

🤢🤢

[Equitube]

What you talkin about. This kind of thing is quite common in all social circles.

[Asker]

@Equitube He doesn’t know shit 🙄

[OlderAndWiser]

Oh yes! I know shit! :) :) :)

[Asker]

No you don’t 🤭

[Asker]

Clearly

[OlderAndWiser]

I clearly know that you are either a sociopath or a troll. No, this behavior is not common. Most people do not ever do such things. But you may think so because of the circle of friends you have around you.

[Asker]

Yes, it IS common grandpa. Get with the times. We don’t live in the 1920s anymore lol

[Anonymous]

Why are you with the boyfriend then? To me, this means he's not right for you, otherwise you wouldn't be seeing his mate. He might be "great" otherwise, but this isn't fair to him. You're just being selfish and not caring about him. What if he finds out? Do you want to hurt him like that? I say end the relationship with your boyfriend.

[Jessica405]

Sooner or later you will be found out! Then the shit will really be in the fan!

Thinking about it, why don't you give u0 on your boyfriend? It ain't gonna go anywhere now!

[Aeon_Norell]

I think you should look inside. Find out what you want and why you are cheating on your boyfriend.
Do you love both? Do you only love one or none? If you don't love your partner or there are issues in your relationship, try fixing them or end the relationship. Is it simply a lack of sex in you relationship? Are you in fact poly-amorous?

Cheating is never right, and I think you should stop. Either by ending the affair or the relationship.
But do search yourself; what made you do it?

[badri13]

Be true to him or breakup with him... I don't think your crush is also trust worthy. As you cheating your boyfriend he is cheating his best friend.. So my suggestion is dump your crush and lead a good life with your boyfriend your crush might do the same behind your back

[kkirk4442]

End the relationship with your boyfriend immediately. You are being dishonest with him, and needlessly hurting him by staying in the relationship.

[Joseph69]

You will have to break his heart and change boyfriends, unless you are happy to keep him as an occasional fuck. Rather way you would be hurting him.

[claud_tech]

If you are fucking your ex behind your boyfriends back, then you don't deserve to keep your current relationship with your boyfriend. Just tell him the truth, so that your boyfriend doesn't find out through someone else what you are doing with him.

[DaMack999]

Enjoy your peace and what ever he doesn't know don't hurt him. Period.

[OddBeMe]

You’re a horrible person. Make it right. Break up and apologize profusely.

[wittymilf]

Why keep the boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

Advice... stop being a skank and be a better human being.

[swettannie]

dump you boyfriend and go with your crush

[Asker]

Crush is married

[Asker]

Ex crush**

[nevernevernever]

Why don't you just date the guy you want?

[Asker]

I am

[nevernevernever]

it doesn't sound like it. Why have sex with a guy you don't want?

[Asker]

Huh?

[nevernevernever]

You said you fucked your bfs friend and you like it better than being with your boyfriend

[Asker]

Show me where I said I liked it better girl?

[nevernevernever]

"Needless to say I fucked the ex crush and we do it regularly behind his back and I’m not having sex with boyfriend much". if you're having sex regularly with one person and sporadically with another when it would be easier and less risky to have sex with the guy you're not fucking much I'm gonna assume you like the guy you're cheating with more

[Asker]

That’s your first mistake. Don’t assume.

[nevernevernever]

Okay... well the alternative, that you do truly care about your boyfriend more than your ex-crush and are still fucking your boyfriend's friend behind his back, is much worse. Why would you do something like that?

[Asker]

It’s a matter of perspective

[nevernevernever]

Well what perspective would that be? Either you're deliberately doing something that will absolutely crush someone you care about or you dont really care about the person you're dating

[Asker]

Have you been cheated on before? Your answers suggest so

[spartan55]

You are so fucking gross.

[jahaims]

Probably should drink some bleach

[Nachowedgie]

You're a disgusting piece of shit

[Charliee635]

U sneaky bi@$, just tell him stop cheating

[GnatSocks]

Kermit.

[lycanthrope3]

I will not tell

[Anonymous]

Fuck em...