Why dosnt he want sex?

[Anonymous]

I love my boyfriend to pieces but lately he's only having sex when we drink and its him that wants it anytime I ask or start sex he says no
I know not all time people want sex but it's got its bearly happening and its making me wonder why
I honstley feel he needs drink to go near me and I feel so down and upset
I won't even try to start sex now because all he does is reject me
We used flirt mess about with eachother and kiss during day now nothing happens we give eachother a peck before bed
he's even started not going to bed at the same time as me and I feel its ro avoid sex happening
I love him so much and just want the spark back
I need attention from him and want to give him attention

How can I ho about fixing this without him getting offended
Anyone else been in similar situation

[loooooop]

Lust fades, even in men. There's not much you can do about it because either way he'll feel forced to have sex with you.

[Anonymous]

Just talk to him about it in a calm voice. Let him know how you feel and if he starts to get upset in any way, let him know you just want to know how he feels and thinks because you want to be with him more.

[Opinion Owner]

It might just be a case of life in general (stress etc). Maybe you guys need to get away or schedule some alone time together and reconnect? But communication is how you fix it. Need to get him to talk to you.

[Tomsta]

Maybe he has lost the courage to ask for it. With booze you are loose inhibitions

Have you asked him why but not in an attacking way

[Sam_The_Savage]

He don't like to have sex with u

[Anonymous]

how long have you and him been dating?