We have been talking for two months, but met only 3 times (its kinda long distance). I noticed i was the one initiating most of our texts (we talked everyday). I wanted to meet with him and he just wanted to come over. I said I don't wanna because i preffered to go out and not only have sex, and since then we haven't talked at all for two days. Is it pathetic to write him now? Does this sound to you that he only wants sex?
I don't think you can come to that conclusion based solely on that, but it very much could be the case. Is it just the one time that he pressured you to invite him over, or does he talk about that constantly?
If he is always bringing it up, then I think you might be right. You are also right to stand your ground, get to know him and refuse to be intimate until you are ready. That is your choice and I totally support you there.
I have to have an emotional connection with a person before I can be intimate with them. You sound like you are similar. There is nothing wrong with that and if he can't respect that, you have the wrong guy.
If he continues to pressure you in any way, I would look at that as a red flag and not worth your time. That just shows that he only cares about getting in your pants and not about you as a person. I wish you the best of luck and hope this isn't the case.
Yes he just wants sex. ESP if your initiating the calls to talk. Have you had sex with him? Hanging out 3 times to
Do what
I’m super sorry, I’m a guy who has done this before, coming from brutal honesty yes, he’s probably just trying to get into your pants if all he’s pursuing is coming over and not going out at all
Your assessment sounds correct to me...
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