He keeps asking to have sex....is that all he wants from me?

[mnbet]

i have a friend and I have known him for almost 2 years he used to tell me about the issues he and his girl friend were going threw and he would just tell me bout all his problems...we were pretty close friends. well now he has another girl friend (he broke up with the first one) but he and his current girlfriend have broken up 3 times and have always gotten back together. during the times they were apart he always asked me when am I going to ask him out but I never did. when he was saying this he didn't know that I liked him and when I finally told him, the first thing he said was "can we fuk" when he first said that I thought it meant he wanted to go with me but now all we ever talk about his him wanting to "f***" me and him wanting to lick my p**** and how he wants me to suck his d***. so I figured that all he wanted from me was sex. but then he took this ring I had and when I asked for it back he told me he wanted to keep it so that every time he looks at it he will think of me...after I let him keep it he told me he loves me...but I don't believe him...he also wanted me to send him naked pix but I said no...he told me I should because he would send me pics of his d*** and he wouldn't worry about me showing it to other people then he said he trusts me and I should trust him...so now that i have told you basically all of the information do you think he likes me or does he just want sex

[Anonymous]

He's after sex. He said he loves you, but what do his actions say? His behavior is REALLY sexually aggressive. He's being really disrespectful of you, actually, and not much of a friend. He sounds like a real creep, to be honest. Be careful of him; he will likely say and do a lot of things to give you hope so that he can use you sexually. He knows that you have feelings for him and it is clear that he feels okay exploiting that (as evidenced by his first rude comment after you confessed your feelings). If you get involved with him, I can assure you that he will end up hurting you. Not only would I NEVER date him, but I wouldn't continue a friendship either. He doesn't care about or respect you.

[meplusabeemer]

Unfortunately, all he wants is sex and this is very evident in his demeanor and communication. If it extended beyond the realm of sex then you would see that. For example, he would ask you to hang out sometime, go for coffee, see a movie etc. It's almost like he deems the friendship as FWB however that is not mutual.

Whether or not you continue a "friendship" with him is purely your decision. However, he doesn't show a great deal of respect for you or the friendship with his actions. If it was me, I would cease communication and seeks friends who offer healthier relationships and will add to you.

Good luck.

[Anonymous]

This guy is an idiot and you should run! He only wants to use you for sex.

Please respect yourself and get a man who wants you for ALL you have to offer - not just sex. And who doesn't have to beg you for it. RUN!

[AUWarEagle07]

Yea, it definitely sounds like he only wants one thing out of you. Sorry to say it but if that isn't what you want then you should end this before he talks you into something you don't want/aren't ready to do.

[Anonymous]

he just wants to hit it. he only cares about your body, not your mind

[Gloryakrasi]

I won't lie to you girl
He wants sex