Why do women hate guys who just want have sex so much?

[TonightYouu]

Like seriously what’s the deal seriously why would a young guy I’m talking 19-25 range be in a serious relationship try to meet your standards

when we can talk to multiple women Just have sex with them smoke weed play sekiro all day sleep at her house drive her car have her cook for us spoil us and not expect anything from us but dick

To mitigate any confusion this question is asking why would any guy who a woman says does the bare minimum, wants a mom not a girlfriend, or is immature etc. be in a committed relationship with responsibilities when we can just chill and be with women who spoil us

and it’s mostly older women or women getting up there in age who are so annoyed by this I find it hilarious because women are naturally hypergamous if anyone should understand a taking better deal you all should

[loveslongnails]

This is a "Duh, Captain Obvious" question, dude. There are indeed a certain percentage of women in that age range who don't want anything more than to get laid, but whatever that percentage is, it's not all of them. It sounds like you want to know "why" ALL women in that age group aren't interest only in your dick, and that should be obvious, EVEN to your immature intellect.

Every woman, like every man, has different goals and different agendas. Some want to marry young and raise a family while they're still young. Those women are looking for men who want the same thing.

What women "HATE" are guys who pretend they want a relationship, or say anything she wants to hear, only to find out all you wanted was sex. That's what they hate, dude - they hate being lied to and gamed. If all you want is to chill and have sex, say so. If you expect women to want to spoil your ass, good luck. Women don't have to spoil anyone in order to get sex. There are horndogs and fuckboys around every turn.

[TonightYouu]

Why don’t women with standards realize they can’t compete with sluts , whores , thots whatever you wanna call them it’s like they are mad at men for being men

[loveslongnails]

LMAO "Women with standards" are not in a competition with sluts, ho's, thots, etc., because their primary interest is not just to get fucked. Furthermore, they're surely not interested in "winning" a guy who has zero interest in what they care about or want. The dumb thing they do is get angry with men like that --- why bother? They're not the guys they want anyway, so it's really stupid to "hate" guys like that who are essentially meaningless to them.

If it were true that " (All) guys want only one thing and it's disgusting", they'd either have to accept it if they want a guy or stop looking for one. The very fact they KEEP looking is proof they don't believe that EVERY guy is like that.

[TonightYouu]

That’s one of womens biggest issues with dating they really believe they don’t have to or need to compete with one another but men we constantly compete with one another

That’s what I’m saying men will be men and a lot of us are walking away from dating and marriage to bang sluts I want to know why they’re so upset by it also especially when they don’t hold these women accountable HELL they encourage this behavior and Hoes are undefeated

[loveslongnails]

You're really missing the point. The women you are criticizing don't CARE about men like you, or they certainly shouldn't care, which is my point. For a woman to be "angry" that "most men only want sex" is really useless and a waste of energy. Similarly, it's a waste of your time to pursue women who want marriage, or ask "how come you're mad at men just being men"? That's a bullshit answer, that's why. It's the anger that's stupid.

[TonightYouu]

No dude you’re missing the point what I’m questioning IS the anger like I said WHHHY? If they don’t care then why are they bothered by it

[loveslongnails]

Dude - I'm saying that they SHOULDN'T be bothered by it because they really don't care about those men specifically. What they're angry about is that TOO FEW MEN want what they want. They don't care about the specific guys - they are angry that guys in general are sex hounds and enough of them don't want "relationships". It's stupid to be angry because there's not a thing a woman can do to change that in a man who doesn't want it. The "why" is because there aren't enough men to choose from, that's why.

[TonightYouu]

Okay that’s what I always thought but I need a woman’s perspective and they won’t even answer it

[loveslongnails]

That IS the answer, dude! LOL 80% of women are fighting for 20% of the men who want what they want, and then 40% of them end up divorced (in the USA). Go figure, huh?

[TonightYouu]

Actually it’s more like 90% wants the top 10% but those men don’t want them because 90% of women want them and women are so delusional today a 4 thinks an 8 isn’t going to be any competition for her

[Dominique95glee]

Could be thair is more to life than sex we want to talk about feelings because besides honestly Loyalty and trust relationships are based on Communication and feelings I mean if the guys understand how woman fell and know maybe they can help if we are worried scared mad talk and maybe after and heart to heart sex might be a option after

[TonightYouu]

Okay and why would a guy choose to deal with all of that when he can just sleep around and be spoiled
Sex isn’t important to you because you don’t have as much testosterone as us
And this is why guys like younger girls you can treat them like crap and they’ll still fuck us and be completely infatuated with us

[Blackcupcake]

oh we don't hate them at all, it's just bothersome how you keep desperately trying to come onto us when we clearly say no

[TonightYouu]

No I mean a guy you like leaving you because he doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you when he can instead sleep around

[Seriouslyitsnotjayy]

Makes us feel like that’s all you want

Would you be okay with a girlfriend like that?

[TonightYouu]

Yes! I said it in the post “she doesn’t expect anything from us but dick

[sammy_xx]

Guys are just mad they can’t get sex as much as us hahah

[slatyb]

Not all do. Find one that doesn't.

[HippieVeganJewslim]

Because women ain’t just sex objects.

[Anonymous]

You must know the wrong women.

[TonightYouu]

Come on though why don’t you gals like that guys want sex especially younger guys

[Dinosaursandanime65]

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