Why are men so complicated? Why do they hate gentle girls?

Anonymous
Yeah I know that there are also complicated women that easily fall for bad boys, but why are some guys getted easily bored? I dated three guys in my life and at the beginning they always tell me the same thing (omg you’re so sexy, sweet, cute and funny, I’m soo lucky to have you) and after few months, they getted bored of me, one of them has cheated on me, and two other had left me for a bad girl that don’t care about them. When I ask them some replies are «you know... you’re too easy to handle, too sweet and I need it to be spicy!» So the fact that I love to cook the favourit meal of my boyfriend every day, have sex with him twice day, plaise him, cuddle him when he need it, and dress sexy for him, and don’t getted easily jealous, should be considered as boring! So being carring is a default now? I don’t want to act, mysterious to plaise a man, because for me being mysterious and complicated it’s bullshit. It’s not my fault if I had an amazing mom, that has increased on the pleasure of taking care of peoples I love. Some friends told me that we have to be sweet on a side and bitchy on another. Why the heck should I be someone I’m not? The thing is that when i broke up with the guy who cheated on me, he started calling me every day, and send me messages every hours. Some friends told me that men love women which are not easy to catch. Wtf? Is it so much to ask to just be honest with your feelings? Why should I play the fatale woman, and act like I don’t care about a man to make him loving me? It’s so stupid and a wast of time. I’m romantic but I think that devotion and loyality are really important in a couple! I’m independent financially since I study science computing in a good university, and I love my studies. I never understood why some girls date bad boys, and why some boys that act like gentle one, go after the girls that don’t care about them. Explain why carring girls are always rejected for being too sweet and too easy to get?
Why are men so complicated? Why do they hate gentle girls?
Why are men so complicated? Why do they hate gentle girls?
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