First off, please shorten it in the future. Too much reading you'll get less replies anyways.
But what I have to say is that most of all, I'd say you're making the wrong conclusion. I personally live gentle girls.
I think that the conclusion that they don't like gentle girls is false. It sounds like interests divided. Perhaps what happened was work wasn't put in to spice things up, keep the spark alive. Love stays through practice, it's not a stable state. That's just something for the future. But it kinda sounds like these men weren't mature either, I question your choice in men. One of the guys you dated cheated on you. But also take into account that the type of man your dating is still young and wants excitement, new experiences, different women before they settle down. These men are not mature. They do not want commitment or to settle down. And since they're losing that spicy passionate love they get bored and move on.
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As a guy, I have the same issue. People say I'm too predictable, and it's boring. Today was the very first time someone actually said that I'm fun.
Pretty much what you wrote is a one to one for me. Advice says I have to act like I don't care to attract women. I'm too easy. I'm boring. I need more spice. More adventure. EVEN MORE HOBBIES. LEARN EVEN MORE THINGS. If this keeps going on, I would practically be God himself. Omniscient. And I'd STILL be considered boring.
So, from what I can dig from this is, you're just with the wrong men, like I'm looking for the wrong women. You could be looking in the wrong places, or even in the wrong country. So far, everyone I've crushed on and liked is a foreigner to the country I live in right now.
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I'd have to guess you're picking the wrong guys?
I don't actually know anyone who has ever dated a girl who behaves like you describe, so i'm not sure.
I'm suspicious you're winning over guys who aren't that into you from the start, then showering them with amazing treatment, so they stick around for a while, but ultimately were never that into you. Instead perhaps you need to find guys who would want to date you even if you weren't so awesome a girlfriend, and then blow their mind... but expect them to also put a lot into it.Who hates gentle girls? I only hate people that mock or hurt what I hold dear, that's about it.
You've just managed to pick the wrong guys. Not all guys are like this. I'd never "get bored" and love "gentle girls"
Sounds like you've just met the wrong people. There are good men out there, and they will appreciate you for who you are. Don't tar all of us with the same brush
Quit dating assholes.
I never rejected a girl out of this reasons. I prefer girls to be like that
Bad guys need to be with bad girls. I never found a good girl, just bad girls acting like a good girl.
men are not complicated at all. we say what we mean. so maybe you're the complicated one. which is most likely true because women are insane
HAHAHA!! Men are complicated? Try being a man and asking a girl how she’s feeling or what she wants to eat. Women accuse men of being too simple minded, you can’t have it both ways
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I myself don't like soft gentle girls I like Warrior girls that care
It's unlikely that men hate you. They might just find you boring, or you may not be meeting the right men.
Don't blame men for your poor taste if you keep falling for the same you are the one who's to blame.
Sounds like you just prefer boys who will treat you like dirt, that's all.
Men aren't complicated your just with the wrong guys
The question is in the reverse way, women are more complicated
I don't know, that sounds great to me.
I think you're mistaking the genders, sweetheart.
complicated?
not me.Do we?
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