Well, I'm 32 and a virgin so I know how you feel. However, few people know that I'm a virgin. A few female friends know. Two of them are lesbians and want to seemed to, overall, suggest that I just find a girl and, well."Wham, bam, thank you ma'am" her (which actually surprised me). One of them, her friends, suggested I find a hooker and go to town. That's an avenue I do not want to try, as I'd like my first time to be with someone special. I'd rather not have to pay for it. ;) The third female friend, who is married, just thought it was endearing.
But, overall, I don't advertise it. Women (and men too I guess) seem to find promiscuity among men to be a sign of manliness. I am not promiscuous, ergo I am not manly. :-/ At least this is the popular belief. Oh well.I'll tell people whom I trust. And when (if?) I ever get into a relationship with a girl, trust should come with that and I'd tell her eventually. I figure by then if I'm able to trust her, I will know that she'll understand and empathize with who I am and my inexperience with women and my lack of experience sexually.
I think there's a lot of girls out there who would understand. At least I hope so. :) I even look forward to maybe being "taught" how in the future, if she has experience that is. If she's a virgin as well (which I think would be a quantum level event due to pressures women feel by society), that'd be cool too.
To answer your question, I don't think all women do. Just some view promiscuity as a sign of manhood. Maybe 10,000 years ago, but I don't believe that true today.
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Well, I wouldn't blame it on the women so much; you have to step back and see how you're approaching women.I would tell you that overall, women like confident men. If you go up to them and they smell the fear, most of the times is a turn off for them. Also, why are you telling them you're a virgin? They don't need to know. I'm sure they are not telling you all the partners they have had. Anyway, if anything, women are intolerant of insecure men, so best for you to take a look at your approach of women, and then maybe you can get an idea as to why they turn you down.and believe me, even when I sucked at my skills, I told women that I was a pro at them; of course, afterwards they would say, geez, you suck, but didn't matter to me; it was another lesson on how to get better. I never took it as, 'women hate me', but more like, ' I need to get another specimen to practice some more.' Plenty of material out there on how to be confident around women.
Well I don't mind. How horrible can a virgin be at sex? Plus if he is a virgin I'm going to feel like a goddess in bed because he wouldn't know what to expect. So its a win-win situation.
I like virgins. If he hasn't had any other partners it makes me feel better knowing he's all mine :)
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They are crazy. Do not underestimate virgin guys! I have had an amazing sexual experience with my man, who was a virgin. His curiosity and his desire to have a woman to please drives me crazy. He makes me feel like the sexiest woman :)
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