Why do I hate women so much?

[Anonymous]

I have intense hate and intense love for women it's weird wanting something you hate every second every day. I can't see how guys can hurt girls like I have seen by using them and playing with their emotions for sex. I would always protect and never want to hurt them but I absolutely hate them. Women lie, are envious, cruel to guys. Girls are never honest they just say what is most convenient for what they want. They use their bodies to bate men and they use them and play with them for attention and then will drop the guy the second they can find a someone richer. I don't understand why they are more attracted to guys that treat them poorly then act like they like they hate to be treated like shit and they are so fucking contradictory they never know what they want. I have seen girls do the craziest shit I could imagine and have no remorse and say it was the guys fault. I try to treat a girl well and she takes as a cue that she run all over me. They make absolutely no since they can't even comprehend the crazy shit they do. I just wish a girl could look past all the bullshit and realize I'm not weak. because I'm a good person and understand I'm a great guy but instead they fall for guys that don't give a shit about them. Talking to my boys a the things they do to get girls it's so fucked up but it works and I wonder how could these guys do this and why are the girls so stupid. They just play a game of who gets hurt first. I'm so sick of this shit but I lie to myself and think they aren't bad when they really are. I feel like with women bad always wins even with my mom. Then I can't stop loving them and helping even though all they do is hurt me and fuck with my head.

[Anonymous]

Maybe this will give you another prospective to think about.

I was dealing with a man that seemed to be this way as well. His idea of the woman that surrounded him through childhood his sister and his mother made him hate certain qualities that some woman have. His trigger was woman with depression addictions and things but he always seemed to say things that made it clear he thought woman just wanted dick And money or other things. He was at this time head over heels for a girl who clearly clearly clearly been using him for sex. I am a woman who doesn't even enjoy sex if I am not emotionally connected and healthy. He spent his time projecting on me because this last woman left him. Your experiences TV all this shit is effecting your view on woman.
I hate it as well and the way you think have messed up woman like me that truly just love and respect men but being treated like I shouldn't have has made me think men should be treated like you say.

But I know it's not true. Put yourself in the right places. Surround yourself with a circle who can love the way that you do and you will attract the right person. But you must erase your toxic view on ALL WOMAN.

[Anonymous]

Again one guy who thinks he is a nice guy. You are not. You are basicly saying you are better than most guys and girls should run after you. You are not perfect. You are just jealous and bitter and that is what repels girls. Your attitude. We can sense it. Nobody wants to date someone bitter and rude.

You call all women horrible. Stop generalizing. Not all women are the same. Not all women fall for guys who will just use them. Not all women lie and manipulate and use sex to get what they want.

[Asker]

Listen you don't know me I have never tried to be nice in hopes of fucking some girl. I'm nice because it's my nature. I have never been jealous in my life of anyone but I am noticing things are wrong and it seems go with it or lose, and girls make it that way. I don't expect people to like because I'm nice it's because I'm a great guy but girls think guys that are bad are great guys when they are not it's more of sine of weakness and it's stupid that girls think this way.

[Asker]

Oh yeah for the record I am better than most guys

[Opinion Owner]

We all have been jealous. So have you. You don't sound like a great guy. Don't flatter yourself. You are not better than most guys. You like to think that because it makes you feel better about yourself. Just the fact that you think you are better than most people makes you worse.

You call women stupid and horrible. No wonder you don't get girls. I get that you feel things are not okay. But you can't fix anything by judging and bashing women online. If women don't want you, there is something wrong with you. Not all the women. And let me tell you, it's your attitude.

[Asker]

Don't try to act like understand because you don't. I can can honestly say I have never felt jealous of anybody anytime. I don't have to flatter myself i know I'm a good guy. Because I have and am willing to do tough things because I know they are right. I feel bad about how girls can't get me, but I don't feel bad about myself. I don't need to tell myself anything to make me feel better because I know the truth. There is nothing wrong with me except I'm not experienced talking to girls. I say this about girls because what I have seen it on multiple occasions from girls. If you trying to somehow hurt my feelings you didn't.

[Opinion Owner]

Don't try to act like I don't understand because I do. You have clearly beed hurt and rejected. I understand it and that is what has made you so bitter and angry. But currently you are trying to blame others for your problems.

Im not here to hurt your feeling. But to tell you the truth. Truth is you will accomplish nothing by complaining here and by generalizing women. If girls aren't interested in you, something is wrong with you. Bad attitude is one but maybe bad hygiene? Going for girls that are way out of your league?

[Asker]

I don't think about being in someone's league I just go for who I like some may be hotter than others. Or just sort of hot and I like them as a person. I have as good hygiene as anyone else and I'm tall and in good shape. I didn't really mean I'm better than most guys but I know I'm a good guy and what a lot of others I know do to get girls is really wrong and they even admit that it's messed what they do, but to tell the truth I am hurt. I'm not trying to blame anybody but girls have treating me like this.

[Opinion Owner]

You have clearly had very bad luch and met lots of mean girls. But don't assume we all are like that.

And yes there are a lot of bad guys out there but not as many as you think. I don't believe most guys are lying douchebags. Most guys are really great and friendly. at least from my experience. And I'm not being naïve because I find it easy to separate idiots from great guys.

Though from my experience the hottest girls are more often rude and shallow. You go girls who are hot and sort of hot. So you propably care too much about appearance yourself.

[Asker]

I'm not trying to sound vain because it's the complete opposite of who I am but I'm not bad looking a few times girls have called me hot and they have said they have seen models that's looks just like me and I don't I think they were lying. Just saying im not ugly. I don't care about looks that much only alitlle by hot I think 80 percent of girls are hot. I want them to see me for who I am inside and I want to see the same in her but I can't trust girls anymore after being treated like this. Because I don't play the game Of hurt you before you hurt me. So I just hurt and that's it and they leave. I feel girls are more concerned superficial bullshit like the game instead of what matters.

[Opinion Owner]

Then stop dating girls. There is a solution. Complaining and acting like a victim will get you nowhere. If you truly hate women stay away from them.

[Asker]

Not trying to be a victim but good point fuck girls I don't need them. I'm happy as fuck in everything in my life. thanks

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah you are acting like a victim.
Yep, no dating no worries

[Guysvsgirls]

You just haven't met the right lady yet. I've honestly have had the same situation with guys, where they play with my feelings just for physical, and drop me like that. However, I have to remember that that was that individual. It doesn't speak for the whole gendor. Each person is different. Don't take an experience with an individual and label "the whole gender" with that.
I get your struggle though.

[Anonymous]

I could say almost the exact same thing about guys though... They say they love you and want to be with you just to get sex and then they get it and they leave for someone with a hotter body or bigger boobs. Seriously.

[Asker]

I would never do that

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah and I would never use sex to get whatever I wanted from a guy so maybe you should stop making such disgusting and extreme generalizations.

[pedanticRomantic]

This seems slightly... hyperbolic. I doubt you literally hate woman every second of every day as that sounds exhausting. And girls are never honest? That's such a sweeping generalization that it can't be taken seriously.

I think the problem is that you've been hanging out with the wrong crowd. If 10 out of 10 girls you meet are these dishonest jezebels you claim them to be then I could see how it would distort your perspective of girls into saying things like "girls are never honest". Break out of your comfort zone a little and meet girls where you don't normally meet them. A change of scenery and people will do you good and will hopefully steer you away from misogyny. After that, some good things to work on would be to keep an open mind and to exercise more humility in how "nice" you are.

[Ped1981]

They're not all like that. The younger ones are usually the cows. It's true some of them are pieces of shit but it's usually caused by insecurities stemming from vanity which nearly all women are. You desire them but you hate them because your views have been shaped by the bad ones you've seen. You won't always feel that way. Don't be mr nice to girls and soak up insults. Don't be scared to tell them to fuk off if they annoy you. They'll respect you more if you set a mark

[Asker]

I think your right but I don't I act nice because I want to get with girls it's more because it's who I am and I think I let one girl walk over me but after I just leave if they are acting crazy. i don't want to put a bullshit ass hole act to get girls though.

[Ped1981]

Just coz it's who you are doesn't mean your stuck with it. Being a bad boy isn't about battering your missus for speaking out of turn. It's letting her know you follow your own nose in life and don't trot meakly after people like a sheep. I was with my fiancée for 10 years and what made it last is she respected me. I wasn't scared to tell her to shut up or fuk off if she was annoying me. She laid into me one morning coz she misinterpreted a text message she'd seen in my phone when id been for a night out. She was punching fuk out of me. I grabbed her by the hair and threw her across the room. I never hurt her, I gave her a fright though. She never done that again. Women like a man with an edge about him. An unpredictable side. I smashed a couple of guys up and down the pub when we were out 1 night. They were cheeky to my girlfriend. She was starry eyed and woudnt stop fuking me for weeks. Nice guys do finish last. Girls love unpredictable and dangerous.

[Asker]

Don't get me wrong I'm no bitch

[Kshppatel]

Lol its all a game OP. I used to be like you but I stopped giving a fuck. Focus on yourself. Stop being so nice. The world is a cruel place and very unforgiving. Just focus on improving yourself in every way possible and disregard females. Don't worry about what they think of you. You don't have to be the bad boy but you don't have to be the nice guy either. I got news for you OP, girls don't want the nice guy, they want the guy that is nice to them.

[Asker]

I don't know why i get this nice guy stereotype it's simply not the case I always invest in myself I just since of right and wrong and give a fuck what they think of me I'm frustrated that I feel I'm doing the right things and no results I'm not that nice I'm just neutral

[Anonymous]

I have the same experience just remember girls from 14-20 arnt women they are mean and heart less just don't show them any respect live your life and wait til you find a mature loving women these young women ain't worth the time of day life your bro 👍

[stfuplease]

*girls

They don't deserve to be called women.

[Chick180]

You know what your problem is? You make extreme generalizations to make yourself feel better. Quit doing that, it doesn't make you attractive at all.

[Asker]

I don't care about seeming attractive that's the truth

[Chick180]

Your post proves otherwise.

[Asker]

Something tells me you are more worried about looking attractive than me

[Chick180]

Something tells me you're a bitter person. Being hateful, will get you nowhere in life.
By attractive I didn't mean physically I meant as a person. And as a person you're not attractive at all.

[Asker]

Haha really cold thing to say about someone you don't even know. I'm not being hateful just telling it how see it. you just seem to be someone cares a lot about looking attractive. Also, I've gotten far in life and I love my life.

[Asker]

Is it that time of the month?

[Chick180]

Lol, no. But, seriously go read your post and tell me that it doesn't sound hateful.

[Asker]

I wouldn't say I was being hateful. Maybe I was hurt and confused. Because I just want to love and treat girls well, and return I'm treated like shit. Also my friend I know I'm attractive as a person that's why this is getting to me. Me saying you look like you care about about being attractive was more of a compliment. lol

[Chick180]

Okay, I'm sorry. I didn't mean to be hurtful, at all. But, these generalizations are so stupid and will get you nowhere. There are lots of girls out there who will treat you right, you just need to find them.

[Jager66]

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[Watermelonoma]

It's because you don't understand women very well, but you think you do.

[Asker]

I dont understand them I just see the crazy shit they do

[Anonymous]

Girls are just consisting of a hole. That's it. If you respect so much to this hole, you will keep on fucking your hand. By the way, never feel sad about them. Because girls are so fucking liars and never believe their tears.

[Anonymous]

The only thing that I care about women is their ass. I hate them with all my heart

[Anonymous]

when i hate women, it's not really hatred towards, it's more jealousy, envy

[Asker]

I have never been jealous it's not an emotion that I have plain and simple

[Opinion Owner]

well it's just more on how i feel its easier for them to enjoy their youth than it is for guys

[Anonymous]

Women do hurt me though. They say I am a great person, and that I am wonderful, then desert me for someone she calls an asshole.

[manarnurah]

I could say almost the exact same thing about guys

[RandomPerson1324]

Too long, didn't read...

[Anonymous]

Preach baby Preach

[MakeitOrDieTrying]

Cuz ur beta

[Asker]

Fuck you dude I'm not a beta if you only knew hot much I'm not a beta