Does owning a house makes a housewife feels safe?

[TonyMetal___86]

If you're a girl who wants to become a housewife, if you're husband owns a house, does it makes you feel safe and comfy?

[ohsheeT]

Any father knows in his heart he will die protecting his kids a house to a women is the same she has a house a good man and being loved in every way if she knows all the above and is happy you will have a good life.

Now the feeling she has with in she will always remember that

And she knows that you must feel the same way.

So don't be a fool and do something wrong because if do and you really mess up she's going to say get out lol. You hurt me so im going to hurt you back and take that happiness away from you. And the house

Don't mess up lol that started out to be a joke but it is true in some cases

So I say just be the best you can be protect your love her and always be there for her no matter what

[TonyMetal___86]

Thanks for sharing 👍🏻

[Just_Ken]

Absolutely. The first thing any woman scopes out is do you have your own place, do you own or rent your own place, what do you for work, your education, what you drive and though most won't ask you what you earn they will be calculating roughly your bottom line salary.

Now this would be a biological instinct to assess as to whether you would be able to shelter and provide for them and any children they have by you or already have. Even if she earns good money herself or makes more money its important to them.

Women always love to get round to see a single guy's pad even if they aren't dating him, he is flagged up as having potential.

Its one of those things that goes into the mix when women choose a partner.

[TonyMetal___86]

Well said 👍🏻

[Masie]

It definitely would make me feel safe and have a sense of purpose that we owned it. I'm not going to be just a housewife.

I plan on finishing my degree and working. A family is possible someday.

[TonyMetal___86]

Thanks for sharing, but there is nothing wrong just being a housewife 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Masie]

Never said there wasn't. Just not my path in life.

[TonyMetal___86]

ok 👍🏻

[Mariogirl09]

Yes it does

[TonyMetal___86]

👍🏻👍🏻

[AI Opinion]

I’m here on GAG to decode love, red flags, and all that relationship drama for you 😏

For most future housewives, a husband owning a house can feel super safe and cozy, like stability plus nesting vibes. But the real security isn’t just the house, it’s your name on things, legal protection, shared finances, and his consistent behavior.

A paid-off house with a loving, loyal man? That’s wife-soft-life unlocked. 💅🏻🏡

[RavVid]

Yes most certainly. What a lot of people don't account for is that there are maintenance costs with home ownership... and upgrade costs... and the costs additionally like Council taxes and Building Insurance.

You have to have the income to run the house. You have pegged housing cost substantially after you have paid the mortgage though.

[TonyMetal___86]

Thanks for sharing

[RavVid]

You are welcome.

[sage2021]

I would like it better if we bought our own house together. If it's only his house, what if he decides to kick me out one day? And says "This is MY house"?

But yes, a house would be great otherwise. 🏡

[TonyMetal___86]

The concept of a sacred marriage wouldn't allow a man to say to his wife that this is his house, even if he was the one who bought it, because a wife is his family and a husband + wife= one person, a loving faithful husband would never say this to his wife!

[sage2021]

I said that because when my 2nd husband and I bought a house 🏠 together, when we split up, he told me my son and I had to get out of our house. If it was just in his name, he could have evicted us.

Yes, what you are describing is great!

But American people have a way of doing things differently.

[sage2021]

If marriage is so sacred, then why are we both divorced?

[TonyMetal___86]

Because he wasn't a real husband, remember why i keep repeating that i don't believe in divorce and that once you're married than you're forever married?

[midnightmoon05]

Most would say yes.
I am just a little different.
first husband. No house and no apt. He was living at home and had $2k saved. No big deal. We both made money and bought our home.
my second hubby. Owned his home with no mortgage. Or the reason I stay with him… or if I felt safe… not at all due to other issues we had

ao it’s a no for me.
now we are very good together.

[TonyMetal___86]

So what's the conclusion? 🤷🏻‍♂️

[midnightmoon05]

Good luck to you finding a good wife.
There are some who will never be happy… regardless of what you have and how much you have. All they do is complain and I hate those women.
Women are all crazy… just depends how much crazy you can handle.
= their hormones.

[TonyMetal___86]

I don't want no crazy wife, i can tame the untamed?
Thanks for your wishes, but actually i'm not searching for one, i mean of it happens, it happens and if not than 🤷🏻‍♂️

[midnightmoon05]

I don’t you. Let me know how it goes.

[Iron_Man]

Will I own a house, but I don’t have any housewife here or even a girlfriend I live alone here but one day I guess I’ll find my girl I had a long-term relationship many years ago, but it’s time to get back out there

[TonyMetal___86]

You deserve the best!

[Iron_Man]

Thank you, my friend do you

[Iron_Man]

I mean, thank you my friend you too

[TonyMetal___86]

You're welcome

[_Jenny_]

@tonymetal___86 yes, I would love to have a house

[TonyMetal___86]

The safe and comfy place for a housewife 😊

[_Jenny_]

@tonymetal___86 Are you proposing to me?

[TonyMetal___86]

What? Nope 😂😂

[_Jenny_]

@tonymetal___86 Aww ☺️

[PeachyPie93]

Sure it just makes life easier if he owns it. Tho i'm pretty sure I'd never settle as a HW again unless the dude was rich lol. I rather have my own shit so if I can't stand him anymore not much will change to my life if i wanna leave.

[TonyMetal___86]

Thanks for sharing but you should be positive, i mean when you get married, you think of it as a forever marriage and that you'll do your best to make it work...

Anyway, i understand what you mean and thanks for sharing...

[whocares1972]

Nope!!. Put the house in YOUR name, then you have safety. Never rely on a man for YOUR own safety. ❤️

[TonyMetal___86]

Why getting married if you aren't able to rely on your husband? 🤷🏻‍♂️

[whocares1972]

You got married for the wrong reason

[loveyouoak]

No, it doesn't make her feel safe and comfy. She feels like a stranger in her husband's house.

[TonyMetal___86]

A stranger? 😂 okay than she can stay at her parents house and never get married 🤣

[loveyouoak]

That's a good idea. 👌🏼 There aren't many decent men left to marry anyway. Since he's the homeowner, who's to say he won't kick his wife out for the slightest reason? 🤔 Men can never be trusted. A woman who values her life wouldn't want to be a slave to a man. 😒

[TonyMetal___86]

If i was married and i was married, i have never kicked my ex from my house, can o be trusted or not? A woman who values her life, KNOWS who to choose!

[loveyouoak]

It's not that simple. Men are manipulative. A woman might think she's chosen the best man, but later that man could turn out to be her nightmare.

[TonyMetal___86]

Same as a man who thinks that he chose the best and she turned out a nightmare, you're talking about stuff that you haven't experienced while i did OKAY! So spare me from this sh*t about men and men!

Look at yourself first! 😒

[ThisSiteSux]

Making a house wife feel safe is the first step to her cheating on you

[TonyMetal___86]

Why is that? 🤔

[ThisSiteSux]

Woman don't want safe. They want danger, chaos, trouble.

[TonyMetal___86]

🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️

[ThisSiteSux]

You'll never be happy

[TonyMetal___86]

Not all women are the same!

[ThisSiteSux]

But they will all cheat on you

[TonyMetal___86]

Why is that? I know many women who have never cheated!

[ThisSiteSux]

Yeah on real men. Toxic masculinity men.

[Anonymous]

I suppose it's possible.

[TonyMetal___86]

👍🏻👍🏻

[InStrictConfidence]

Yes.

[TonyMetal___86]

👍🏻👍🏻