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This is something that bothers me. I'm watching this show Lucifer (fun show btw-does a good job of making fun of itself) and I read a review by the New York Times claiming the show is sexist because one of the main female characters is a stereotype (because she was in an adult film) and female characters are shown having sex with men. That's what the review says anyways.
I get how someone could see it that way- could think she's a stereotype. But here's the thing- Lucifer is hardly a flattering portrayal of a man. He's good looking and has charm, but he's also a complete sociopath that wants to have sex with anything he sees, not to mention highly immature. In short, he's the stereotypical man.
Why is it OK and tolerated to have a stereotypical man in a show, but not a stereotypical woman. Dramas and comedies are so overdone anyways- the characters are always more extreme then real people are.
So many movies have a hot female lead who depends on the guy but also has emotional intelligence and smarts, and a really stupid beefcake who can fight but can't do much else and doesn't understand emotions. I don't hear guys complaining about being stereotyped.
There are equality issues in society. That can't be argued. But looking for sexism in TV shows and having these double standards doesn't progress women's rights. I'm all for women having equal rights, but this is just getting ridiculous.
I'm sure I'll be seen as the devil by some people just for writing this comment. That, and because my picture shows a smiling apple being cut with a knife.
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POLL: Is the double standard absurd?

I need to know whether I should ask this girl out or not. I'm clueless at this type of stuff but I really like her.

One of my friend's asked this girl to be in our group for a college project. He knew her a good bit, but I had only spoken to her twice before, months back.

REASONS FOR:
. She mailed me about the project a good bit more than the other two guys and seemed to use me as the main point of contact, even though she knew my friend more than me. She also sent me her number "in case I need to contact her" about the project but didn't send it to the other two guys (neither of them already had her number either).

. Before she went off on holiday she said if she seen anything good she would bring it back for me.

. I told her I was looking for a job a couple of months back, she said she could get me one in January. When January came around and the topic of jobs came up, she remembered our previous conversation and actually did get me the job.

. I gave her a lift home one time and she was really thankful and said she'd have to get me a drink sometime (though that's a relatively common thing to say to someone in Ireland if they do you a favour).

REASONS AGAINST:
. Twice this happened. We were mailing about college and I turned the conversation more casual/funny, she replied about three or four times and it seemed to be going well, but then she just stopped replying. However, both times it was around 12 or 1am and I was taking about 15/20 mins to reply sometimes.

. I told her loads of people in our class were going out for drinks and asked if she was going. She just looked a bit confused and said she wouldn't be going. However, turns out I mixed up the dates and not many people were going out at all that night, which could explain her confusion. It was also only at a few hours notice beforehand.