Although women find themselves turned on by the decent looks some men may possess, we are a bit more complicated in what drives us wild about a man.
In other words, the route of sexual arousal is completely different for a woman than it is for a man.
Please see previous take:11 Sexy Things Women Do That Drive Men Wild
Most men are visual creatures.
Most women require some sort of bond with the guy,
in order to feel that same way that a guy would within minutes
of getting to know a woman.
There are certain personality traits that tie
into how we view this man that stands before us.
I will list physical attributes along with personal traits below:
1. Having physical strength
A.
Most women like to feel secure and protected around their man.
You don't necessarily have to be bulked up, to achieve a decent level of physical strength.
A man that is physically strong, or can pick me up without struggle is a turn on.
I love the dominance a strong man can possess.
B.
Struggling to open this jar is so difficult for my petite little hands!
When my tough guy opens this jar with little/no difficulty I can't help but be impressed!
2. Being well dressed
Suits and dress shirts can really compliment a guy!
It's something a man cannot ever go wrong wearing.
It makes men look extremely handsome.
Yes of course, casual and laid back clothing
does it for ladies as well,
but if you're looking to turn things up a notch, especially for a
special occasion, this is definitely the way to go.
3. Showing up to our meets on time
A man that is mostly always on time is the biggest turn on.
If he's like this in other aspects of his life, such as school or work,
this is even better!
This shows this man is responsible.
This also shows he has great discipline.
What a combination!
If we get along well, this is a man which will be hard to resist.
4. Having good posture
When combined with a man's great sense of style, a good posture can do no wrong.
Stand up straight and tall, shoulders back, stomach in, and head forward.
A man that walks with confidence, shows a person that is secure and dominant.
He isn't afraid to face and walk towards the world.
"Security" and "Dominance" are two main features that drive a woman wild!
5. Showing a respect for one's boundaries
A man that can kindly respect a woman's "no",
know matter how caught up he is in the moment, is a man of gold!
If he's immediately able to stop himself in the given situation,
without condemning one or providing a guilt trip, this is a turn on!
Respecting ones boundaries, shows this man has the ability to listen.
One of the biggest turn ons for women, is a guy that is a good listener!
6. Just the right amount of aggression
A man that goes after what he wants, whether it be the woman of his choice,
or a job is a huge turn on for most women.
Also, a man that dislikes something and is willing to stand his ground without
coming off as arrogant or cocky is also sexy.
Women love a man with a huge backbone, that is not a pushover.
7. Hearing his voice
Don't you just love it when he calls you?
The sound of his voice over the phone almost makes you want to melt!
I especially love when he keeps it short and sweet at times.
Perhaps, he's calling from work and has been extremely busy all day.
This doesn't cause him to fail in efforts to say,
"I've been thinking about you", or
"I've been missing you. I hope your day is going well so far."
Even though the conversation is cut short, it's often great to receive re-assurance of how
much he cares or how thoughtful he can be.
8. He is so good with his hands
There's something about a man who can fix what is broken.
Watching the guy you take interest in, get all sweaty, and showcase his expertise,
allows him to assert both skill and independence.
These are qualities a woman looks for when looking for a mate.
These qualities can showcase themselves in different instances.
When they do, they instantly drive most gals wild!
9. Showing affection
A man that shows affection has got me weak in the knees.
Don't be afraid to hug the girl you show interest in.
Don't be afraid to kiss her.
Don't be afraid to hold her hand.
Even if you've been dating for a while, don't let these great gestures
that I have always loved slip away.
A man that is affectionate always makes a woman feel special.
You can never show someone you love them too much.
Tomorrow is never guaranteed.
Please keep in mind, that a man does not have to possess all of these qualities,
However, if he has a good majority of them then he has a great set up for a relationship.
He's offering security, dominance, responsibility, affection, strength, and compassion.
What more could turn a woman on?
Girls, what drives you wild about a man?
Guys, what traits do you think you have to bring to the table when pursing someone else?
Thanks for reading!
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