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Hi there,

Can a guy fake affection?

I met a guy that is really attractive. We went on “two dates” and had a good time, we have things in common and we laugh a lot. He knows i’m dating other guys and I know he started dating a girl. We are not compatible in more meaningful things like he doesn’t like to take risks in relationship and thinks things through a lot. Me, on the other side, I’m more impulsive.

Like I said this guy is really attractive. We kissed in the second date and it was amazing. I saw him yesterday and we saw a movie in my house. Nothing happened. So I asked him if he was weirded out about our third date, he told me that he didn’t wanted to assume anything and that he wasn’t sure if I wanted as a friend ( We discussed our other dates) I told him I was seeing what happens. He knows I want something more serious and he said that he can’t rush into things because it has happened in the past and that he doesn’t want anyone to get hurt. I told him I didn’t wanted to stop seeing the other guys but that I wasn’t going to get intimate with him, because we weren’t sure of what we wanted.

We started kissing and he was really affectionate. He caressed my hair a lot and gave me kisses in my face. The kisses were passionate but also very sweet, he kissed me on my belly and in my forehead a couple of times. He caressed my hair a lot and stared at me a couple of times with a smile. He was smiling and I asked him if he was laughing about my messy hair- he said he was happy- although things got pretty heated he didn’t undressed me and interrupted things to help me with a uni work he knew I was working on.

After that we kissed a bit. We kissed passionately goodbye and that was it.

He was really affectionate, like my boyfriends haven’t kissed me so much or with so much affection. He really took the time and the kisses were sweet although they were passionate. Can he be faking it? He has expressed a coupl

Well I've been seeing this guy for about year. he's bi sexual and with a man that for the last year he hasn't been into and has wanted to leave but the guy makes him feel guilty everytime he tries to leave so he stays. he's very closed up, afraid of being hurt and trusts no one. We are very close and im the one person he tells anything too. Over the last 2 months we have become a lot closer. He looks at me differently then before, treats me differently in a very good way and even the way he speaks to me had changed. I told him Thursday i wanted to try and help his relationship because I've been telling him everything his boyfriend says and i told him i won't do that anymore. Friday i asked if he felt a physical of emotional attraction coming back and he said yea. I asked if he was happy and he said yea so when he implied me and him getting together again i said no more and he did speak briefly to me and then told me to have a good weekend and he has had small talk since but not much and hasn't spoke to me at all today... i dont know if i made a boo boo in trying to help his relationship that he hasn't really wanted anyways.. i dont know if he took it as me saying i dont want him or what... what do you think?