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I have never had a guy ask me flat out to.
have sex or for a casual hookup, ever. No guy has ever asked me for anything lesd than a relationship. My ex was no exception. He had approached me with very vocal intentions about getting serious. He was super gentle and fun and then we slept together and nothing changed. He was as nice as he had always been. I have needs too so I wasn't withholding sex even though I gave this man my virginity I never pressured him to be my boyfriend just so we could have sex - I wanted to sleep with him. He told me "I love you" 5 times before I said it back. He asked me not to say it unless I meant it because if I ever did tell him I loved him he wanted it to be sincere. When we became official I said it 2 weeks later but I meant it with all my heart about 2 months after I actually said it. I didn't intend on falling in love, it just happened. By the time I felt that I had invested a lot into the relationship he switched up. We had an argument and he pushed me away. He started treating me like just some stranger off the street. We had some ups and downs after that but ultimately we broke up in the end and of course it was my first heart break. I always hear that its the girls fault for choosing to be with someone who wasn't a nice guy or for trying to change a player. But from hearing my side of things I think its clear he never showed any sign of being a bad guy at all. I didn't try to change him. Is it my fault that I got played?

Imagine this:

You and your beloved are tangled in a forbidden relationship (i. e have a despicable barrier that tears you both apart), the only option granted to you guys is suicide. You are going to jump from a great height, say a skyscraper. Well, honestly choose an option on the poll of what you've done.

a. let them jump first. you are going to chicken out, the theory is kinda lame and stupid. you can always find somebody else, why lose your precious life?

b. jump before them bc you'd hate to see them saying goodbye to you and their life itself. you trust they'll follow after you.

c. push them!!! there's no back out from this situation, what if they try to run away once you're gone?

d. jump hand in hand. if we can't live together, we shall die together!!

e. jump from a lower height, so that you can keep your last promise and save yourselves, it'd be a good threat that may even result into marriage!

f. have a parachute, you're a selfish lover after all! make sure they die tho.