Search Results: what goes on between you and your girlfriend

Girls, What the hell?

So me and my girlfriend of almost 2 years are both in the military and pretty much never fight but she went out to sea for 2 weeks and we really couldnt talk much except for a few emails here and there. Im coming home...

Anonymous

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Dating

Why I don't date single mothers

I haven't received enough flak this week, so I think I'll dabble into some taboo territory. You can find articles all over the internet on virtually every dating website on "Why you should date single mothers" or "Why...

Kiran04

Yoda Age: 42

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Relationships

What do you think is the difference between a "BIG LIE" and a "small WHITE LIE"?

A small "white" lie would be something like... asking your boyfriend if he likes your new haircut and he says yes. That could be a "white" lie. & a "big" lie could be something like... cheating on your partner and never...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Who has the right in this argument between me and my girlfriend and also how would you girls react if your boyfriend did this?

We went out to eat and so there was this girl at the next table and she was dressed pretty "revealing" and she had a friend, I guess my girlfriend noticed her too. So i will admit that i did look at her a couple of times...

Anonymous

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Dating

5 reasons you should never date someone on the rebound

So I'm 25 years old and have never been in a serious relationship but the closest I've felt to being in a relationship, I ended up being used as a rebound and it was a learning experience for sure. The best analogy I can...

Anonymous

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Fashion & Beauty

Lessons on surviving the natural hair journey and learning to love your own hair!

The last time I actually saw my natural hair, I was eleven. Eleven! As soon as I hit middle school, my hair went into braids, and then after that for nearly two decades I had the same hairstylist, glory, who had my hair...

Anonymous

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Relationships

The Importance of Logic in Strong Emotional Situations

So I am going to share something that has been on my mind. It pertains specifically to sexual relationships and emotions, and I am writing this from a female angle. I am writing based on what I have experienced. I am the...

Anonymous

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Girl's Behavior

My girlfriend thinks it's okay to talk about guys A LOT attempting to get me jealous but apparently guys (i) can't say things about other girls Wtf?

Anonymous

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Other

Does this style of living exist in your country?

I was inspired to ask this question by another question I answered. In Switzerland we have a style of living called "Wohngemeinschaft" or "WG" ("living community"). It's especially loved by young people (18 to early 30s)...

BlueCoyote

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Other

My Top Ten Favorite Movies of the 1990's

The 1990's seem to be everyone's favorite decade for some reason. Since I was born in 1990, I was a 90's kid, and I loved it. Of course, this is largely due to nostalgia, but it's also because I thought everything in the...

CincinnatiRedsfan

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Dating

Pros and Cons of Dating a Divorced Man

So I am 24 and I have dated divorced guys before. I am single, never been married or engaged, and I don't have a kid. People thought I was crazy. Maybe I am. My divorced relationships did not work out...but I still...

Anonymous

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Family & Friends

Do you ever miss the misery?

https://www.youtube.com/embed/VfyUIT-Dmco The title seems kinda crazy huh? Saying you miss misery.. Well what gave me the idea is the lyrics to a song by halestorm "i miss the misery" and it actually mad me think this...

batgirl22

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Dating

When a woman gives too much too fast, she is perceived as desperate or a doormat, starving for approval and love?

In my experience, many women believe or partake in a certain trend that I believe is a fallacy. They think that the more they give a man early on, the more the man will love in return. I am NOT saying that women...

Anonymous

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Break Up & Divorce

How to be a Great Ex

I used to have this saying when I was single and had a hard time finding a relationship: "You know, I make a great ex-girlfriend. In fact, guys should date me just so I can become their ex!" I didn't call them, I didn't...

Ozanne

Editor Age: 51

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Society & Politics

Who is more privileged in western society? Men or Women?

For the TL:DR crowd, my take boils down to this: Women often live together in their opaque bubbles, and guys often live alone at sea, swimming in misconceptions and self delusions. It has been said many times over that...

Watermelonoma

Yoda Age: 35

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Family & Friends

The up and downsides of a friendship with the opposite gender

I’ve gained a lot of male friends the last couple of years, some of which became my best friends. And I can’t even imagine my future without these guys, they are simply amazing and I always have a blast hanging out with...

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Society & Politics

Top Feminist/Feminism Questions of The Week

Feminism — the belief that men and women should have equal rights and opportunities. Feminist — a person who supports feminism. Do men hate feminist? Asked by @TheNewJanie in Guy's Behavior “I'm for equality but I...

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Dating

Am I just one of those people not suited to having a relationship? I'm stuck between having a girlfriend or just being single. What do you think?

So I'm a 16 year old guy, however I'm far from average: shy, prefers to stay in, socially awkward and just awkward to be honest. Now I know it's a little early to be worrying about relationships at my age but I just can't...

Anonymous

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Guy's Behavior

Why does my friends with benefits act like this?

Anonymous

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Okay. So this is my friend of four years. There's always been some sexual tension between us. Three years ago he got a girlfriend and a year ago I got a boyfriend, so between that

Okay. So this is my friend of four years. There's always been some sexual tension between us. Three years ago he got a girlfriend and a year ago I got a boyfriend, so between that period we never crossed the line, but we still flirted intensely. Before those periods though, he use to touch me. During and before, he complimented me all the time. A year ago, we got matched up in the same classes after a year of being apart. He had his girl, I had my guy. I never really crossed the line because I felt that was unfair to my boyfriend, but my friends with benefits told me once that he saw us being in a relationship. We smoked together sometimes, once he told me he was hoping we'd just be shit faced and have an affair with eachother. He brought up motions of us being together. And shit.

I feel like he did that because he had his girl, so he felt safe saying that stuff, you know? But that's just my theory.

So my boyfriend and I split in January. He and his girlfriend in February . Soon after we kissed, and gradually moved up to sleeping with eachother.

Now. He NEVER brings up the thought of us together. He seems so terrified just at the thought of us being together. I can jokingly call him "Babe" and just in an instant he'd be like, "Don't call me that". Like relax man, I was just joking. LOL. But he calls other girls pet names jokingly, and has noooo problem with that.

I mean like. To be honest, the feelings have always been there. But I'm leaving for a four-year university in September. I'm sure it wouldn't work anyway. And he's one of my closest friends, so why do it if I'm gonna' probably end up losing him? I'm not attached to him. Usually when I have feelings it's like an obsession, but it's not like that with him. I just feel comfortable with him and the idea of not dating him doesn't phase me.

I have my theories, share yours. I like to hear other opinions.

I'm going to go see him tomorrow. Now that we graduated and no one's in our busniess, he'll probably be up front with me.

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Marriage & Weddings

Benefits of Getting Married Young

In recent times, there seems to have been a secularisation of marriage, with couples choosing to cohabit rather than take the plunge. The value of marriage seems to have decreased especially amongst younger people. My...

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