Do you ever miss the misery?

[batgirl22]

The title seems kinda crazy huh? Saying you miss misery.. Well what gave me the idea is the lyrics to a song by halestorm "i miss the misery" and it actually mad me think this lady is crazy omg saying she misses the misery. Like who misses misery? Wtf right? It doesn't just go for relationships of marrital or boyfriend/girlfriend it goes family wise too. Many people get divorced because of the fighting and the violating and if there is children involved then they dont want the children to see it of course cause it will scare them and scar them, some children will grow up thinking that IS the way you're supposed to live because they grew up with it but when you hit the teenage stage you start seeing things clearly...When my parents got divorced i would rather have the misery of the yelling the fighting to keep the family together instead of the misery of divorce having to jump from house to house back and forth between parents i hate it and i yelled at my dad "Why the Fu** didn't you just stay together? Everything would be so much better!" (So respectful huh?) Yeah you won't understand it until your parents get a divorce..which i hope it doesn't. Either way its going to hurt but one hurt will hurt more than the other. Relationship wise? Dude you start to become dependable and the only thing that is keeping the relationship IS THE KICK IN THE FACE. Scary huh? But think long and hard about it. Then come and leave your opinions on my take, but first i want you to not just scratch the surface i want you to dig deep as hell so you know where im coming from. Even if its not you its a friend or a family member. Think about it then talk to them and ask why and im damn sure they will say "I dont know. I just love him/her. I can't let that go." And after you dug deep enough into the thought to understand, explain to them why they can't let go and im pretty sure it will help them realize something that they never thought they ever thought of themselves.

[NovaLS]

I dated this psychopath but it was funny she was sweet at the beginning and it was such a gradual change that I didn't realize that I wasn't supposed to be depressed and upset during a relationship haha it sounds stupid but I was totally desensitized. We mutually split up when she cheated on me but I remember missing hating her and being depressed it was the normal for me. But now I am doing much better and realize that was extremely unhealthy and not normal but I understand the meaning. And woo go Halestorm! \m/

[batgirl22]

I understand where you're coming from lol my ex was the same and I didn't realize it until the first and last time he tried to strike me. u. u but hey its cool he has his ass beat and I have someone to that treats me right 3/4 of the time lol. Kudos to you that you're all well and done now ! :)

[BaileyisDarcy]

I miss the misery.

Living with my dad my stepmother would emotionally, verbally and every now and then physically abuse me. But at least I got to see my little brother and sister every day and watch them grow up. Now I have to ask my brother what his favourite show is or if his favourite Pokemon is still Giratina. I keep forgetting how old my sister is and dammit is it awkward talking to Dad.

But hey. I'm out.

[batgirl22]

Kudos to you babe im happy that you're out and im sorry you had to go through that in your life. Everything seems to change either for the better or for the worst I mean Im from a broken family.. my family is even more broken now that my parents are divorced. But hey everything will be alright in the end !

[apexalpha]

Heck no I don't want to be misserable