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@ThatDude29 Its a special kind of allure that just captivates. It's very powerful. When a women uses her femininity in the right way she has at her command literally a generation of men. And i don't mean that hyperbolically. And i'm not talking about sexual.

@backdoorman We men are irresistibly attracted to femininity, a fact that seems lost on many of today's women, who it seems have been led to believe femininity = weakness. Trust me when I say that as long as there are straight men in this world, femininity will be power, not weakness.

@hellionthesagereborn I feel like in any other era this question would have a very obvious answer. I don't need a woman to be strong because no matter how strong she will never be as strong as myself. I don't need a woman who acts like a man because I am a man. She can however offer something I can never have which is femininity. She can be nurturing in a way that I cannot provide for myself, she can instill in me a sense of purpose. Men are built to provide and protect women and family. This gives them a reason to strive and a reason to work hard because they have someone to make these sacrifices for. If she chooses the man she is saying he is important enough that she wants and that she trusts in his value enough that she thinks he will pass on the best of himself to her offspring (that's a very big deal). So yes femininity is desired, doesn't mean she can't like masculine things, but it does mean that she will have a certain outlook and a certain behavior that can only be done by women.

@Average_but_not_Joe I've known people who believe being feminine means showing off assets to get attention and girly-girl means doing makeup and going to parties. I am looking for someone that'll have my back when I need it, a partner.

I am torn on this one. It seems men have one standard... is she hot, but I know some women personally who have chosen guys so bad that if I drug a bum out of the gutter (shower optional) I would have a better guy than their guy. I think that most women are afraid to be alone. They are defined by their relationship. If they are not in one they lose social status and source of entertainment. Most women do not have hobbies or careers so he is their hobby.

Now men on the other hand seem to put up with a lot of bs all for a hot woman. I hear guys complain she won't work, take care of house or kids, snuck around got credit cards with him knowing and goes out partying. I have heard this story A LOT. The only answer I got to why stay is she is hot.

I know this is not all cases. It is just a story i hear a lot from both sides. This is just my opinion from personal experience so if you dont like it move on to another question. I am sick of people coming to my questions with their insults and bull. If you have something intelligent to contribute please add it. I am curious if others have experienced similar stories. Or tell me your personal story.

I'm posing this question because of the many comments made by men who say that they want to be in a relationship but it is mainly the girls who are not interested and/or are saying no when being asked out. There are many men who would like to know what you are thinking.

I know there's a lot of multiple choice options (I'm sorry), but I think it is neccesary, and will be helpful for men to understand - there is, of course, no one single reason.

I am including an anonymous answer option. And limiting it to only female responses, so men will not be able to comment (or harrass, or publicly judge, only read). Post comments anonymously if you feel you have to, to speak freely. Did I not cover a reason? Feel free to post your reason in comments.

And if you see any comments here that you know for a fact are made by a man with a fake women's account, call them out, let everyone know.