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So long story short. Yesterday, I was suppose to host a dinner for my boyfriend, my best friend and his best friend. I cancelled last minute, upsetting my boyfriend and his best friend. So to make it up to his best friend, my boyfriend invited him to go for a ‘guys night’ tomorrow. (They can’t go anywhere cause we are only in Phase 2 of COVID so they are going to hang at someone’s house.) Now I’m not overprotective or jealous so idc that they are going out tomorrow.
What I AM upset about is how my boyfriend went upon it. He went and asked his friend to hang out, and then told me ‘I’m hanging with ____ tomorrow so I’ll be driving you home around 5.’ And when I asked him what time he’ll be picking me up after they hang out (since I have constantly staying by him these last few weeks) he said ‘oh well I want the option of staying out late and not having to drive if I drink so let’s just hang out on Monday.’ Knowing good and WELL that I was suppose to sleep by him on Friday AND Saturday night. (I can’t sleep by him on Sunday bc I have a birthday party.)

Should I take this as suspicious? I told him I’d Uber to him or he can sleep by me if he doesn’t want to drink and drive but he is STILL saying no bc he wants the nights to himself. So of course I’m getting suspicious bc how do we go from sleeping together every night to now wanting this space? Am I crazy or right?

My boyfriend of three years and I broke up, for like four days. It was a hard time and I was very upset and hurt. Long story short, we talked and worked it out and we are back together. by the way, we have lived together for a majority of our relationship. But, once I told my mom and sister, that we are back together they have been so negative. I have been in multiple relationships where I have been hurt and I have listened to them when it comes to it. But now, that I am making my own choice and choosing to stay. They make me feel horrible for it. by the way, he didn’t cheat or anything or done anything horrible to me. We just weren’t really discussing what bothered us in our relationship. Anyways, now that we are back together. It’s been maybe a month or so now, they make me feel horrible for getting back together. My mom keeps saying “you guys argue all the time” when we literally don’t. And even if we did, I don’t tell her everything because of her reaction. I purposely don’t tell her stuff because she will hold onto it and make it a big deal. My mother and my sister also said they’re waiting for our relationship to fail and said that I’m not as strong as a woman as I think I am because we decided to get back together. I get that they’re trying to be protective and such. But they can also be supportive even though then don’t agree with the decision. And every time I ask them to be more supportive they start yelling and say that they are being supportive but continue to tell me how much of a failure my relationship is going to be and how i should listen to them and leave the relationship still. It’s almost like they’re mad at me for not making the decision they want me to make. I have been dating this man for three years and I am not going to just breakup because my mom and sister will think negative things. I’ll do it if I want to. And I’m 25 and he’s 24. But am I just misinterpreting their words or does it sound like they’re trying to control my decision?