Why do women play games or play mind games?

[OldboyJon]

Long story short my ex been ignoring me and texting back every other double text I send. We ben broken up since Jan but since this virus hit and her kids left she got distance from me. She suffers from depression and when
She stopped talking to me she said she getting me used to her not being around anymore. Recently a few months later something happened with tinder her toxic friend (she mad a tinder of my to talk to guys) found my old tinder I don’t use and I was supppse to see my ex for her birthday but she told me “I’m good” after seeing that I then gave up and said I’m sorry for the account and I’ll just delete your number and leave her alone cuz she ignored my previous text then she replied with “wow ok” as if that upset her, when she doesn’t talk to me anyways. I told her I would if that’s what she wanted and she said she has had ex who said that and didn’t and I told her I will delete the number if that what she wants and she replied with “I didn’t say that” she was vague and didn’t tell me anytning after that. LIKE I DONT UNDERSTAND WHAT SHE WANTS

[ZackBan]

Yeah clearly looking for makeup sex but can't bend her own ego to ask for it.
You're already treading closely to the line of simpary so I say just move on if she decides to get her head back on her shoulders and actually makes the full effort of contacting you and fixing things with you
Then depending on how you feel you could consider it but otherwise it's time to look for new ventures.

[bluehen46]

I guess its part of a poem i learned in schol "between a woman's yes and no there is not room for a pin to go" i wonder if its because women think they are supposed to. I always tell people to be direct. now part of that was how dense i was when i was dating.

[KaylaJoy]

As long as you allow it and play her game, she’ll keep doing it. Unfortunately, toxic people (irregardless of gender) play mind games and push boundaries for as long as they can get away with it in order to get their way. You’ll have to stop playing her games and put your foot down. Either she will be responsive and fix her behavior, or you might have to end the relationship.

[OldboyJon]

We been broken up since January she never acted like this even after we broke up the first two times and she’s the one who broke up with me and asked me to get back together each time

[Rory_Pants]

Exactly and with quarantine and the feeling of loneliness this becoming a pattern of boredom if she truly doesn't find you interesting and just amusing..

[Avaemmaa]

Probably you started it first. Women do it because men do it.

[OldboyJon]

Started what? I’ve never done anything expect give her my time and all.

[Avaemmaa]

My guess is move on!

[OldboyJon]

I mean I did delete her number so she won’t be getting texts from me. She told me a while back that’s she’s only interested in me and if she was ready to be in a realationship she would reach out to me

[Juggernautpunch]

Bullshit.

[OldboyJon]

@Juggernautpunch what is

[Juggernautpunch]

Her og man hating bullshit comment.

[Avaemmaa]

Yea let her go! Find someone else...

[Avaemmaa]

As for @Juggernautpunch with a name like that if I were you I would stfu

[Juggernautpunch]

Yawn. When did wit become obsolete. The retorts on this site are very poor. D-. Also books/covers/judging? Ring any bells muppet?

[continentalbreakfast]

Avaemmaa, take some responsibility. We do it just as much and for all the same reasons as men.

[Avaemmaa]

@continentalbreakfast with a name like that, stfu and make me some waffles 😂 hold the butter! And for the other guy, I see you are about as dumb as you look huh?

[continentalbreakfast]

Yay waffles 🧇 dint be ignorant kiddo. Take responsibility

[continentalbreakfast]

*dont

[see23me]

Let me tell you all your brothers out there this is what it is women are the most vindictive mean people on the planet as long as they love you it's all good soon as they hate you they want you to suffer I don't want to kill you fast they won't kill you slow and I'm going to hit you where it hurts the most most guys might get a little aggressive women get vindictive if you got a cut there going to throw salt in it and I'm going to do it slowly that's all women all women are crazy except your mother to you but ask your dad and she's crazy too but when you find that special one the one that puts up with your crazy and you put up with her crazy then you're good enjoy life

[Mountainr]

You come across needy and kinda sad really and women find that unattractive. Its not surprising you don't know what she wants sounds like you don't know what you want. Figure what type of girl you want then be the guy who improves himself and attracts the girl.

[KrakenAttackin]

What she wants is ATTENTION. You are not meant to "understand" it as your confusion is a part of the ego boost for her.

If you want to "win" the game, stop giving her attention. The only way to win female mind games is to not play.

[OldboyJon]

Well I kinda got her the first time without doing all this, she's my ex and she didn’t act like this in the beginning when we first started talking

[KrakenAttackin]

Get rid of her. She is an "ex" for a reason.

[DerInuitHamburger]

Your best bet is too drop contact my man, your own mental health, physical health and happiness are more important than someone, especially if someone says "they're getting used to you not being around"

[OldboyJon]

She told me that cuz she was planning on taking her life “suicide” she told me I was her only lifeline and that’s why she’s alive. I did drop contact after her birthday Tuesday I told her if she wanted me to delete her number and she said she didn’t say that and then that’s the last I heard from her I haven’t texted her since it’s like you didn’t tell me u didn’t want me to delete your number but your actions show it

[DerInuitHamburger]

Keep your head up man, focus on yourself, do what you love doing, maker yourself happy, with her saying that you are her lifeline is completely selfish honestly

[OldboyJon]

I’m sure she’s doing fine without me she’s alive

[Rob17792]

Just get rid of her she's mindfucking with you to see if you still care about her and have feelings for her. She's childish and immature and is playing games and not worth your time or energy to waste on the likes of her. She's into so much drama that this woman will make your life miserable. Don't even bother and find somebody else more mentally stable than her.

[Rory_Pants]

Why in the world are you not using your tinder right now.. 😔🤦‍♂️

Do yourself a favor, delete and block her. Move on! 👊 she's aware she controls you.

[Papichulo02]

They are not interested. Girls that like you don’t play mind games. They won’t tell you that aren’t interested.

[OldboyJon]

She’s my ex we dated for a year

[Papichulo02]

She probably just want attention. Never go back to a ex. There is a reason why y’all broke up.

[OldboyJon]

She broke up with me it wasn’t a bad relationship she just delt with depression and other things along with toxic friends that ruined things for us.

[winterfox10]

Control. Everything you need to understand about why women do things comes down to control.

[Avaemmaa]

BS guys

[winterfox10]

@Avaemmaa All I can do is speak from my life experience. In my experience, women do that sort of thing to have more control.

[OldboyJon]

If it’s not BS @avaemmaa why is she acting like that towards me

[DerInuitHamburger]

It's not really BS if guys go through it, I did, but us guys are less likely to talk about it due too the stigma of us being seen as weak. I went through that sort of relationship, and yeah, she was being controlling, I was on the verge of suicide because I seen NO other way out...

[DamnSam]

Profession

[Sparda20xx]

Man you're better than that. Don't put up with that shit

[ranger3456]

Don't give women who play games any attention. Leave her and tell her to fuck off with that shit. Men should have zero tolerance for that.

[Nadim171]

She's playing a game. End the game. Confront her about her. She'll be speechless because she expect you to play it..

[OldboyJon]

How u know she playing a Game

[Nadim171]

you just said she is.

[888theGreat]

If they are going to give "it" up, they want guy to earn it I guess

[OldboyJon]

Wym?

[Avaemmaa]

If you feel this way then masturbate forever

[ranger3456]

@Avaemmaa there isn't a problem a woman can solve that my own right hand can't do better. Piss off

[Jerseygirl04]

Cause you let her. She does it as long as you put up with it.

[OldboyJon]

So why she get mad when I told her I’d delete the number and act like that or when I asked if that’s what she wanted she says she didn’t say that

[888theGreat]

Those are some white teeth

[Be4rdy]

I dont I just get played a lot, I just dont trust women I'm also 50/50 with the chatting so if they dont talk to me I'm not gonna always start a convo with them

[EyesOfGod]

Bro she is you ex if your not back together by now she doesn't want you just ignore her and move on.

[Aquiline_feast]

I never like those players. Life is cruel enough that not needed to be wasted like that.

[Juggernautpunch]

Move on. Ex for a reason. Dont waste anymore time with this nonsense
✌🏻

[elisa_0]

Don’t put up with it and she’ll stop

[OldboyJon]

I’m not I told her I’d delete her number and stop bothering her and she said “wow okay” and then I said I’d leave you alone and she said her ex’s in passed have said that and I said I won’t if u want me leave u alone I will delete your number and she said “I didn’t say that” and that’s alll she said like she’s playing with me or being so vague

[elisa_0]

She’s pretty toxic. The best thing is to ignore her

[OldboyJon]

Why did she get mad when I said I’d delete her number? And like saying “I didn’t say that” like why the mind games? I did delete her number tho

[elisa_0]

She got mad because she thinks she can get away with being toxic and you putting her in her place makes her feel upset.

[OldboyJon]

I was only doing that cuz she wasn’t talking to me anyways

[KrakenAttackin]

Stop wondering and mentally flush her.

[Rory_Pants]

Bro, she got 😠 because you're taking the control she has over you away.. *RED ALERT*

[TheReaILifeGrumpyCat]

Because they are retarded and immature.