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Am I asking too much? What are your thoughts?

I am a domestic violence survivor who ended up with an unwanted tattoo at 17 years old. The Criminal Justice System charged him and the guy ended up in prison for years. I moved 2 hrs away from the place where I...
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Is it bad if my boyfriend said this?

My boyfriend called me on lunch today (we always talk on our lunch breaks) and before ending the call he said "we really don't need to say I love you every time on the phone". Is this a cause for concern? Personally,...
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Why do so many black men here always elevate white women onto pedestals? Why do so few of them value black women yet still expect them to be loyal?

It just makes no sense to me. It seems like most black guys are attracted to white women who share their socially liberal lifestyle values of not wanting to marry and raise kids. And they’ve just become bored of...
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I mean I know what it means just hurt and want to hear it from you guys?

My son dad puts all his other kids pictures up except my son which is the last child he had with me. He always bothering me asking me to send him pictures of him and I do so I don’t get it. He put the others on social...
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Why I believe Christians are often ignorant of Christianity

I had a dream years ago, in my dream God told me “You don’t respect me, that is why there is so much darkness in your life.” I asked God what respecting Him looks like and He said “It means focusing on the lowly and...
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Guy asked me about my origins. Should I feel slightly offended? ?

I met this guy online. Like so many people for some reason ask if I’m mixed. It’s rude and I find it to be an offensive backhanded compliment. They’re insinuating I wouldn’t be attractive without some features of...
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Would someone you started dating showing you their childhood home or neighborhood make you feel uncomfortable?

I was sexually abused by my mother. I was raised by my grandparents. But i wanted to take a girl I've been dating to the neighborhood where I grew up. I wanted to show her my childhood home. This is not where I was...
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I was sexually abused by my mother. I was raised by my grandparents. But i wanted to take a girl I've been dating to the neighborhood where I grew up. I wanted to show her my Show More
Yes. Seeing where someone grew up can be awkward
Yes. It makes me insecure about my upbringing
No. If you really like someone you should be excited about seeing where they grew up. Even if a lover was abused at that location, I would be honored.
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Does it Seem Like She Likes/Is Hitting on Me?

One of my friends has been contacting me a lot. She says she misses me quite often (though we keep in contact quite often) and she told me she's going to write me a song (about me). Today she asked if I'd like to hear...
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One of my friends has been contacting me a lot. She says she misses me quite often (though we keep in contact quite often) and she told me she's going to write me a song (about Show More
She seems to like you, Cookie.
She's just being a platonic friend, Cookie.
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How to tell my girlfriend that she looked better with blonde hair in a nice way? She dyed her hair a weird blue color and I'm pissed off?

She asked me "baby, do you like my hair?" I didn't want to be an asshole so I said "yes, it looks great." The thing is I was raised by my dad that taught me to always agree with your wife so I follow that philosophy. I...
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Reasons Why I Think Women File for Divorce More Than Men/Why Relationships Fail

Hello! It`s time again for a small rant. I`ve noticed recently that a majority of the most frequently asked questions on GaG are about women filing for divorce and why. As I think most of it is pure coincidence, and every...
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Is he a good actor or very cunning and deceiving? Or is he just a good guy with horrible social skills? WHY would he say this to me?

Omg! This guy confuses me so much! Every time we would go out. He would compliment me in certain ways. For example, • he would tell me how attractive/beautiful/gorgeous I am • he’ll tell me my personality is...
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Should I tell him about our baby?

I’ve been sleeping with this guy for 3 years on and off and one day I felt sick and happen to have a gynecologist appointment only to find out 2 wild things. 1) I was pregnant and 2) he gave me fucking chlamydia. I was...
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Workplace : Is this man Racist, or not?

- I am part of a panel that is making a decision - further to an investigation at my workplace (and grievance raised). I’m writing anonymously for this reason. - Below are the details - please let me know whether...
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Was he lying or telling the truth?

I recently had to cut off this guy I was friends with benefits with on and off for 2 years. This man BEGGED me to come back to him wanting to prove that he’s changed (hadn’t seen him in a year). First day was amazing....
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Why some people are so ignorant and stupid?

So I was having a girls night out I was lit as hell the vibe was on point until some white looking petite looking anorexic woman comes to me and ask me where am from so I said raised in Manhattan bitch had the balls to...
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Is it for any reason a bad idea to ask HR where I can find the list of company policies?

Like if I ask a question like that, does it immediately raise a red flag that I am trying to engage in questionable behavior?
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Husband raises his hand at me?

Not sure what to do, i can't leave we have 3 kids and the home is in both our names, he keeps getting so angry like jekyl and hyde. Lovely one minute the next he's flying off the handle, he says im constantly making faces...
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Should I one day forgive him?

So to keep it short.. I’m 27 and I have 2 siblings. My father decided to walk out on us when I was 16 years old. He never tried to speak to me or have any sort of contact. He never gave me a dime. My mother had to raise...
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Guys, Would this be considered as love? or just caring about me?

He never raised his voice on me, even though I have he never complained about how much money I was spending (whenever we went out) till I decided to check and realized in just 2 weeks I spent $800 He takes me...
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I’m not sure if he’s interested in me or he sees me as a friend?

I was alone in an event that my school done. While using my phone, i raised my head a few times and this guy was staring at me and smiling. Then, he approached me and had a conversation with me (he didn’t ask personal...
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