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Why do I become insecure when I think about inviting my friend to a date?

So today a friend posted on her story about how she will be single forever, and how nobody noticed her, I told her if she only knew, and she asked “if I only knew what?” I told her that I knew someone that couldn’t stop...
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How do I build mental resilience and strength?

When I was little, I used to be mentally strong, but after 20-something years, I found myself being weaker than my younger self. I grew up in a culture where hitting children and physical punishment were the norm. I once...
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Is my husband completely bored with me?

My husband had an affair a year ago, so I often wonder if I'm just being insecure. He doesn't want me to be insecure, but i feel like he doesn't realize how hard that really is when he was unfaithful. As a woman, it makes...
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Advice for the True (Non-PC) Men out there: How to Handle Crazy Women!

I've been with many gals in my still short time on planet earth, though I've been with none of them long enough to properly let into my life... And thank fuck I didn't, for while not all of them were " Bad ", many of them...
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What I’ve Learned About Relationships

**Disclaimer: this is written from the point of view of a 20 year old, straight woman, whose goal is to be in a healthy, monogamous relationship with a straight man. This will affect the text but the text can apply to...
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Stop Giving Yourself Labels

When i was in 7th grade. I had a crush on a girl. She was beautiful and had long black hair. Her nose was so cute and her ears were pared to perfection. Her eyes were round and big and i was absolutely in love with her....
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I feel so extremely ugly (as you can see why) - What can I do to look more attractive?

I feel so ugly and insecure all the time. I thought those thought would pass with the years but that is not the case at all. Actually i feel uglier and worse day by day... (not just with my looks but also what kind of...
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Is it true that ladies in the old days were classy and girls today are sassy. Is it true that women no longer behave like ladies and are not calm?

I believe a woman is a classy and a girl is sassy. That is the difference between a lady and a girl. That is the difference between the ladies of old times and women of today. Women of today want to be treated like ladies...
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My online friend broke up with me due to my over attachment. Is it possible to recover the friendship?

I was attached to an online friend deeply. But he left. He was a helper. I knew him in June due to I had a problem to fix. He was an introvert and had no friends for deep communication. He wanted to help me, so we had...
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Guys, i'm texting this guy as friends. How do I become more than friends?

My friend and I did something on insta lol and long story short we ended up being friends with this guy that we graduated with last spring. In school we never spoke but we had classes together and I always thought he was...
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Last night my ex and I had a party (we still live together), and he all the sudden became super reassuring to my insecurities?

My ex and I are best friends. That is why we are able to still continue living together without the awkward tension. As friends we are absolutely perfect. Our relationship ended on mutual terms because we both felt as...
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Feeling insecure... about my crush, does he like me?

I have a crush on a guy at work. And he's been talking to me at work for about 3 weeks. He's really nice to me and remembers everything I tell him. My friends tell me that he definitely likes me but I'm not a confident...
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My opinions on "Beauty."

So I saw this myTake recently called "Being Attractive can be a Mixed Blessing for Girls and Bullying" And the title itself wasn't bad, but then I started to see a lot of recurring themes ... Narcissistic themes that is....
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Should I break up over "white lies"?

I'm dating this guy who just... can't be honest with me. I'm generally trusting by nature and wasn't trying to catch him in a lie, at all, but it happened. It was a minor "white lie", when he said on the first date that...
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What should I do to calm my depression?

I’m in such in such a horrible state. I’m in a horrible deep pain. Today was actually the first day I thought about how it’d be better if I died. I don’t know how to explain the feeling. I was at the mall today, I was...
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Help. I feel uneasy about my boyfriend and another girl?

Before you go on about how insecure I am, let me explain to you what I’m feeling at least My boyfriend has a band the previous lead singer left and she was female. He didn’t like her at all at first but after...
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I Love Myself Without Permission

When I look in the mirror, what do I really see? Do I dare tell the truth or am I just supposed to say what everyone secretly wants to hear: “I don’t feel pretty”. I believe that self-love has become such a social taboo,...
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Guys, would you be ok if a girl pulled away when you tried to kiss her the first time?

I've never been kissed (I know... it's kinda lame for someone who is 25) and I've never had a boyfriend. I've only recently started dating this year (but obviously things haven't gone further than a couple dates with a...
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How can I deal with my sister purposefully flirting with the men I date?

My sister purposefully flirts with the men I'm dating. She goes out of her way to try to make herself look better. Talk about her strengths and comparing them to my weaknesses. She is younger and blonde and pretty....
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Insecure or mentally insane?

I know my problem might sound immature but it has been quite a weight on my shoulder. I suffer from BDD and several mental illnesses. I barely eat because I see myself as round and fat although i’m currently wearing xxs....
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