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Okay so I used to have this "relationship" with this guy, abou 2 weeks ago he came to my house with one of his best friends, we were all just talking and having fun, I was pretty sure that the guy I like he was having an affair, we were talking and I started to talk with his friend and he said "be careful man, she is pretty good taking information" I knew that he was hiding something from me. Like 2 days later I send the friendship request to his friend, from Facebook, and we started talking he is really nice person, and so we make this nice friendship, then he called me, but he said he was feeling like shit because Jason (the guy I was with) make a bad thing to me, and I ask, what? He said Jason have sex with a co worker, and he gets fired from his job, I was shocked, but I didn't tell Jason I just stopped talking to him, and things like that, but like a week ago he send me text and he says what is happening? Tell me if you don't want anything with me, so I don't Hurt you and you don't hurt me.. and I just tell him the truth, of course i don't told him that his friend tell me everything, and he said no no no I don't have sex with a fat, married lady, I don't have a problem with fat people by the way, but the lady is ugly his friend told me, and I'm slim and I go to the gym.. the thing is that I told him I don't want anything with you no more, and he doesn't stop calling me and texting me, telling me he loves me, I don't believe him of course but why you as guys make this drama? That's my question, I mean if you don't like and you don't love a girl why don't accept she don't want anything with you? And yesterday his friend confessed something he said that Jason have sex with this lady in his home..

Last night my ex boyfreind texted me after not texting for a few days. It is his cousins birthday and he said if I am around come to the bar as a friend. Which was weird. Thinking since I guess maybe his cousin doestn know about us. It was 12 so I was declining. I told him I was not dressed for it and he said he was casual. He said to come a few times to me but I didn't. He then goes Im being serious about the freind thing. The he goes into saying he is not interested in anything else right now. What does that even mean? Is he not ready for us again yet, ever or what? and why invite to a semi family function.
Backstory on us; We were in relationship for 3 months Short lived but amazing. He struggled with a job and that played into him breaking up. Everyone thought we should still be together. Anyway after bu we continued talking and we have sex. Some months in he went back and forth with that idea saying we should stop because its not fair to either of us but we never did. Bu happened in April and now its January so you can see the amount of time. I still very much have feelings and deep down inside hope and believe maybe one day things can work. Although I am not holding onto that. Anyway he also makes side comments about me and other guys like seeing if im with other people or like oh im sure your with a new boyfriend now, which none of us is with anyone else besides each other. Why the coments and why say that to me last night? What does that even mean?