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Inspired by the Samantha Mears case
Basically, Mears broke into her ex’s home, held him at knife point, and forced him to have sex with her. Aka rape. She also urinated on his bed. Bitch.
she's being held on a bail of only $50,000- I think it’s wrong- she could’ve given him PTSD, anxiety, probably a shit load of relationship issues now. She ruined his life. If this was reverse and she was a man and such, she wouldn’t of been held with bail.

So, should rapists be held on bail? Yes or no?

I always had feelings for this married guy, but I respected him being married. A few years ago he started hitting on me really hard and even though I can say I loved him I didn't give in because I wasn't sure what his intentions were. I didn't want to be his sex you on the side, I wanted to be his partner if anything and for him yonrespectfully split from his wife, if that was also what he wanted and so on.

His advances looked like this:
He touched me on my arms, shoulders, called me late in the evening under some pretense, called me beautiful and charming, gave me very intense and direct looks, showed signs of jealousy, made me understand that he finds me very attractive etc.
I did respond positively but didn't touch him back or anything, since he's married.

At some point he indirectly said he was about to leave his wife but nothing happened and I felt hurt. Since then he's always shown me signs of attraction but at some point he said again he couldn't leave her. He started to flaunt her around and constantly mentions her in from of me, when before he did the exact opposite and basically let me feel like his girlfriend. It really hurts me and I often question myself and whether I should have acted differently. He is often very cold and mean towards me now and mentions her especially in front of other people and I feel humiliated even though I swear nothing truly ever happened. I just truly loved him and it felt like we would soon be together.

Well and now I think I need psychological help because I definitely show signs of depression etc. But up until now it has not helped. I totally feel like a horrible person because "for some reason" he didn't understand that I loved him (I didn't hope in bed with him but I was nice enough and patient and everything) and it makes life very hard. I feel like I want to die very often. And he constantly reminds me of her now.
I'm not sure at this point if he did the same thing w

So before I begin, here's a little bit about me. I'm a Christian girl. I don't do drugs or go to parties. I don't sleep around or believe in free sex. I drink occasionally but very rarely (like maybe once or twice a month). I'm in church every Sunday and when I'm not working or in church I'm either with friends or working out. I'm a veteran and My idea of a fun Saturday night is having dinner with girlfriends followed by a movie. Now because I'm a single woman looking for a relationship, I'm on dating apps: Christian mingle and OkCupid are the two that I was using , but I'm thinking about disabling my OkCupid account because I have a problem with that site that I don't have with Christian mingle: even though it states nothing promiscuous in my profile, I get so many messages from users on that site hinting towards sex. I put the same information on the profile that I provided here yet a common message that I get is "you look so sweet and innocent. Are u open to corruption?" One guy even saw the military uniform in one of my pictures and pointed out that I was probably great in bed. What do you all think? I seldom get offers like that from men irl unless they're drunk but on that site it seems to run rampant. Does being what some call sweet and innocent make a woman more attractive or is it the stigma about military women being promiscuous that attracts these creeps (I don't seem to get messages like that on mingle but that's not to say that I haven't gotten them there). What do you all think?

So, the other night me and the fiance were having a few beers. It had been a rough week so we were chilling, chatting, and somehow got onto the topic of celebs we find sexually attractive. We’re both open, not insecure and have never had a problem with the other finding other people attractive. Myself especially because my fiance is attracted to women who have “natural” or “regular” bodies, meaning he isn’t into instagram models or super fitnessy women. For a visual, I’m 5’, 110 lbs, 32C boobs. We were showing each other pics of celebs we found hot, and all of his were very “obtainable” types of low tier celebs, except for one. He showed me this one pornstar looking woman with tight abs and obviously fake breasts, which usually isn’t his type. According to him, she was just “something different” he enjoyed changing his visuals up with. Now, I had no right to be upset because I showed him pics of men much more in shape than he is and was ogling them pretty much lol. However, perhaps it was the beer or the hard week I had, but I got a little insecure and went to bed right after to avoid saying something. After I slept, I still felt a bit bothered until I realized how meaningless it was for him to find one really radically different woman attractive compared to myself, considering I was in the same boat. So, just tell me your thoughts? Has this happened to you? Am I nuts or do you think I really should have been upset?

If a woman you love for 10 years you did everything for her. You accepted her and her kids in your life.
She was never interested in you that way. She always had other boyfriends. You were just her best "gay" friend and her financial, emotional support. Her suddle husband and couch man (because thats where you sleep not in her bed) to do handy work for her. And the "uncle" to her kids.
Now that you have moved on with a girlfriend. The new girlfriend made you cut her off. She is looking for you all over the place, checking up on you every now and then. Goes through your only best friend to ask if you guys will all be hanging out because she wants to be apart if you all meeting up.
Two years later now that you moved on with a girlfriend. Do you think, she is interested now? Or stay away from her?