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My new S/O C and I have been together for about two months. I'm absolutely loving this relationship with him. We have great chemistry and we're open and honest with one another. He's outside of my norm because I'm use to arguing all the time and stressing out about stupid things. But, with him... it's totally different. He's a real gentleman and extremely sweet. Now I knew everyone has some flaw, baggage or something extra about them. Whether it's minor or major I really didn't mine. His issue is that his mother is ill. She was diagnosed with Parkinson's disease and a bit of dementia five years ago. She needs constant supervision. She kind of like a toddler. She needs someone to wash her, cook her food and dress her. She's always walking around and she's always getting into things. He has two other brothers but they don't spend time with her enough despite the fact they all stay under one roof. He's been tending to her for years. Meaning while his brothers live their lives. She even has a twin sister and she doesn't want to be bothered with her either. C was comfortable with that until he stared dating me and now he needs to live his life too. His brothers never want to help out and it interferes with our plans. We all work but we're off on weekends. We can't even enjoy our weekend because he watches her. It bothers me a lot and I'm trying to be patient. I can see this being a big problem for us. It's like we can't go out or anything. And if we do its too late in the day and then we'd have to reschedule 😔😒 He's even scared he'll lose me because of her and I won't lie I think so too but he's too awesome to let go. So I'm asking what you guys think? Should I call it quits and let him take care of her? Or should I just learn to be more patient?

I understand you may be tempted to say "neither" or "both", but for the sake of argument, just pick one, if you HAD to choose.

I'm agnostic. But if God exists, & we had to limit to one gender, I'd say God was female.

There are some female-only species but no male-only species. https://news.nationalgeographic.com/news/2001/07/0702_wirefemalemites.html

Even in Christianity. There's reason to believe that IF Jesus was really born by a virgin birth - parthenogenesis, which is a thing in the animal kingdom - Jesus would've been female, since the Y-chromosome - which creates maleness - is passed by the sperm, which would have not been present in the impregnation of Mary. Jesus would have feigned maleness due to the possibility of not being taken seriously otherwise.

For that matter, people venerating Jesus as partially female actually isn’t unheard of:
https://bigbible.org/mothergod/4-6-christ-as-mother-in-the-middle-ages/

Also, Julian of Norwich, who is recognized as a saint in Catholicism, argued that God is both Mother and Father.

She also argued that rather than being a punishment upon women, as claimed by many patriarchal aspects of religion, the pain/blood of menstruation & childbirth were mini-crucifixions intended to bring women closer to God/Christ. Just like Christ bled to bring spiritual life to humanity, women bleed to bring physical life to humanity.

Thus, menstruation being a cyclical reminder of women's connection to God and Christ as well as the cycles of nature. Indeed, the content of menses is the endometrium, which is the place in which the zygote first implants - all humans' first homes.

Monthly, women are exposed to the Source of Life, & reminded of their sacred status as the Vessels of Life. What could be closer to God than that?