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Let me state first of all that personally I DO think it’s okay for guys, including those with SO’s, to like other girls’ selfies on social media. And I would also like to clarify that I’m not talking about selfies of girls that are borderline pornographic, you know the kind I’m talking about. The kind I am talking about in this post, the ones that I think are harmless, I’ve included an example of (a guy I know’s fiancée got super mad at him for liking this pic of me on Instagram, and she made him unfollow me). The meme above is something a girl I know, who is married, posted on FB, but I don’t really agree with it (the part about selfies, let’s just ignore the stuff in the middle for now). Now, this girl is VERY insecure, is overweight, and is on her second marriage because her first husband only married her to get his Canadian citizenship, and as soon as he got it he started cheating on her. Now, her case is a bit extreme in terms of her insecurity, but I’ve met quite a few women, many of whom are very attractive, who get very jealous and irate if their husband or boyfriend, who, by all appearances seem to be very devoted to them, likes selfies of other women who are attractive. Do they have a point? Is liking other girls’ social media pics, or even just looking at them in their IG stories, and indication that they are attracted to these other women and are thinking of cheating? Or is that a bit irrational? I personally think it is. I think if a woman has a big problem with her man doing that, it’s a sign that she’s either very insecure, or there may be some underlying problems in the relationship, and deep down she’s afraid that he’s attracted to other women and might want to cheat. If so, I think those issues should be addressed in the relationship, because that level of distrust and jealousy, to the point where a man can’t like another girls’ pictures, is very unhealthy. But, that’s just my opinion. What do you all think?

This is fairly long winded, but does build to somthing. I would appreciate if you read it, but it is not necessary for the poll.

Please vote before you read, and then tell me if my monologue changed your mind.

Today I looked in the mirror and thought "My goodness, no wonder no one loves you, you're hideous!". I'm a very dramatic person in case you can't tell.
Now I am normally a very looks positive person, promoting inner beauty and loving yourself for what you are. So I began to wonder if this makes me a hypocrite... I'm here thinking I'll die alone because I'm "hideous" when I tell people that they can find love despite their appearance.
This is where I stopped and really looked at myself. I'm fat. My gut doesn't hang out or anything, but I'm definitely a plump girl. My nose is big, my cheeks are full, and my skin is so fair that I could hide naked in snow drifts and my vampy complexion would conceal me. I don't know why I'd be outside naked in the cold... but I could do it without detection if I really wanted to.

However, after careful consideration, I have decided that I am not "hideous". I may be plump as a kings Christmas pheasant, but a good portion of it is in my boobs and butt. Which my I say, I get many a unwanted complaint for. My face is chubby and my nose is big, but people love my eyes and my eyebrows have even gotten a few compliments. My lips are small but well shaped, and get many unasked for kisses. My hair is kind of like that one annoying friend who you love, but also hate.

So am I ugly? Probably. But a bad attitude certainly doesn't help.