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Iam not perfect in any way, iam my own person iam smart, funny, logical and dendepenable, 6'1 very loyal and very good looking (according to all the females i know) and i make an effort to stay a healthy weight and stay as fit as i can.

The first girls i dated were 7/10 with good qualities but it didn't work out, i improved physically a lot to the point i can easily walk into a room and spark instant interest in the hottest girl there (done more than once) I attract all kinds of girls but i find that iam most attracted to attractive girls, i dont wanna sound shallow but every girl that i considered dating in the past couple of years was 8/10+ and few were 7.5/10 ... its not one sided before you ask as these girls have shown strong interest in me as well (however either distance, wrong timing or they had a boyfriend ruined it ) .

So iam single and i find a lot of average to slightly above average girls attracted to me quite a lot, i've been asked by 2-3 girls to be their boyfriend but i jokingly declined (Not very attractive) iam nice and i dont like hurting girls, but i just can't see myself dating a girl who i dont find pretty the first time i meet her, if i dont look at her and say " she's beautiful i want her to be mine " i dont think i can date her...

Iam sorry if i sound shallow but it is what is it is, am i right or wrong?

Yes i have acid reflux and iam young , 21 years old, i have dated before and enjoyed life til a couple years ago i started suffering chest pains, stomach pains, annoying feelings, palpitations and other annoying symptoms after over a year of tests and doctors they discovered that i have Acid Reflux, it doesn't seem that dangerous and my doctor said it isn't but still it causes acid to go up my esophagus (and it can get it inflammed giving me so painful chest pains for a week or more) and sometimes even gives me painful abdominal pains and weird shakey feelings , palpitations.

I used to work out, enjoy life, eat whatever i wanted but now i can't, i have to avoid chocolate, mint, tomatoe sauce, fried food, most treats and sweets, spicy and hot food and pickles as well, plus i should not eat 2 hours before bed, overeat or bend too much during the day.

Iam on meds eating a healthy diet which keeps it under control, but dating means a girl has to be okay with putting up with all that and enjoying some meals alone while i watch her...

everyone says iam very good looking, have a great style (i like to take care of myself, groom and wear nice clothes ), smart, funny, interesting and down to earth, iam also 6'2 not fat and good at school (college)...

but i feel like iam asking too much of a girl whose just starting her life and has to put up with me and my condition, iam not trying to be overdramatic but even my parents find it annoying sometimes that i can't eat a lot of things...

do i have any chance with a decent girl? not gonna lie i dont think so but i hope iam wrong...