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Search Results: found unattractive
Paying for a date?
This is not a 'should men pay the bill on a first/whatever date' question. I have extensive experience of what is essentially paying a woman for a successful date, ie paying her to meet for drinks then spend the night...
Kelly34
Xper 5 Age: 34 Time to breakup with my bf?
I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 years, the past 12 months or more has been pretty sh*t, after the first year he started talking about getting engaged, after that it's been nothing but a lack of effort on his part....
Gymbabe91
Xper 3 Age: 35 Pigtails on young women unattractive?
I just recently found I love (low) pigtails and it's an excellent hairstyle for getting hair out of the face and looking cute at the same time... but then I came across an instagram post and I became disappointed to find...
IHateMeganFox
Yoda Age: 31 How do I get my boyfriend to stop smoking?
I'm known for my "chillness" when it comes to my boyfriend and I don't get mad at him for stupid reasons.. But he has been smoking for what I just found out to be almost a year because of his anxiety and it is so gross.....
Anonymous
(25-29) Exactly how unattractive is smoking cigarettes?
I would love to quit myself, but I haven't really found a way out. Is there any chance I can still attract a girl while I'm in this quitting process? Honestly I'm thinking if I find a girl, she could give me the support...
jimmytippycanoe
Xper 5 Age: 33 Are there any girls out there that actually don't mind being with a shy guy?
More specifically a shy guy who isn't very keen on approaching women and gets very nervous when talking to people initially. I'm personally attracted to girls who are like that and most guys I know think it's cute as...
GamerArtNerd
Xper 7 Age: 35 Guys: What type of girl (if given the choice) would you want?
Given; myself personally, I judge based off of their personality, however - I'm speaking body type. Myself; I find skinny girls to be highly unattractive, I'd rather bump a bike to be honest. So myself as a guy who...
Anonymous
(36-45) How do I deal with being unattractive?
Please refrain from generic answers such as: - go to the gym (I do ) - you have low self esteem (the number of rejections and how many times I got called ugly destroyed my self esteem) - join university clubs (I'm in...
Anonymous
(36-45) Don Draper, from Mad Men, why is he so appealing to women?
I hear from all different types of women, that watch the show Mad Men, that Don Draper is so hot, sexy, dreamy. I find this funny because the same actor played on the show 30 Rock and yet no one found him attractive ......
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Single Guy, Mid 30's, No Children, Dateless... What to do?
Well, I am 35, haven't dated anyone in a few years. I was absolutely single, and had no interest in dating anyone. However, I have been feeling the pain of loneliness, but I have no idea what to do. Recently, I moved...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Im ugly and no girl has ever found me attractive?
im 19 ,havent even had a kiss yet . I've been rejected far too many times in a lot of ways . been lied to ,been called ugly ,worthless ,loser,trash . I pretty much have very little hope left , I thought I was worth...
Anonymous
(36-45) Guys do you think it's time for gender roles to switch?
I think it's time for gender roles to switch. Women need to do the approaching simply because it ends up being better for everyone. I have never met a woman who has been rejected eve though I've heard they're out there...
icepick
Xper 3 Age: 46 How do you know if a girl finds you attractive or unattractive?
If you only consider cases where you've never had a longer conversation with the girl. Are there any good indicators, i.e. body language or behavior , that she finds you attractive or unattractive? Let's say a guy has...
qstoffe
Xper 5 Age: 44 Ex boyfriend contacts me and has a gf
My ex from over a year and a half recently contacted me-we were horrible for each other and he was verbally abusive-it was the worst thing ever-prolly almost a year ago I email him apologizing for my faults in the...
Anonymous
(36-45) Can someone explain to me why I'm in the friend zone?
I have an on-going, mind-f***ing issue that I could use some advice on. I have this guy friend, who I really like a lot. It's pretty safe to say I've never felt this strongly about anyone before, however we do have a bit...
Anonymous
(36-45) Haunted by memory of sex with very unattractive guy
A few years ago I met someone who I not only found to be extremely unattractive but my skin literally crawled every time he touched me. However, I had gotten to know him as a friend and I thought to myself "you are not...
Anonymous
(36-45) Are you no longer physically attracted to your ex?
I've noticed that when you have feelings for someone, they become more attractive to you. So when I had moved on from my ex's, I looked back at pictures or even in person and I thought to myself, 'how did I ever find them...
Hannah591
Editor Age: 31 Are you more attractive by your own gender's standards or by the opposite gender's standards?
I'm basing this question off of the fact that males and females have different motives when they compliment one another. A man might compliment another man's bulky muscles because he strives to achieve such mass,...
WoIIie
Guru Age: 36 Is it unattractive for a man to have multiple kids with multiple women?
I was with a man who I knew intially had two children with two different women and he was never married to either of them. Later I found out he had ANOTHER child who was with ANOTHER woman that he hid from me because he...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Ever found someone attractive who used to be unattractive?
Just wondering, cause I came back from school and saw my friend from a few years ago who is now gorgeous but at the time she wasn't really that attractive
Anonymous
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