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Search Results: harder to approach when you really like her
LDR Ex-Fiancee Broke Up 4.5 Months Ago. Says She Will Send The Ring But Hasn't Yet. Thoughts?
(I asked this question before a few days ago but thought it would be better to provide more context.) -Long distance relationship of 2.5 years, she is 24 and I'm 32. Both have been planning marriage from the beginning,...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) "If he truly loves you, he will chase you" applies differently to shy guys.
The age-old saying of, "if he really loves you, he will talk to you no matter what it takes" is dried up and quite frankly, not true in all situations. Some guys can fall for a girl but get nervous around them when they...
Anonymous
(25-29) The Art of the Spiel
The song "You're gonna go far, Kid" by the offspring puts it best. Turning all against one is an art that's hard to teach. https://www.youtube.com/embed/ql9-82oV2JE However, it's easy to learn. Drawing from this song,...
JustMyTake
Xper 7 Age: 29 Girls, How do you feel about being asked out in front of your friends or coworkers?
I am going to ask out coworker who I know likes me and as made it fairly obvious but with work being busy that it’s hard to find her alone and sometimes when I do I flirt and then absentmindedly forget to ask her out. I...
TheNoOne
Xper 6 Age: 34 Guys, Says he wants to remain friends for now, not interested in anyone else. We’ve never had sex & have told him I won’t do why keep me around?
We’ve never even met im person. But only cause the few times he’s invited me over, I couldn’t go. Met on social media a couple months ago, we texted a lot & he was always eager & available to talk. He asked me if I was...
Anonymous
(25-29) Perhaps women aren't just shy and submissive in dating, perhaps they too are cowards, just like a lot of men in society?
I'll stress that whilst this is mostly about women (being a man), the things I wanna talk about are universal... The dating game... I'm a big man, always working to improve myself physically, mentally, emotionally and all...
FreshOutaIdeas
Explorer Age: 31 Girls, Could this be ever really rude?
Okay so two weeks ago when I just dumped my ex (she's living in the US far away from miles) after some odds and lies from her that I couldn't accept; then I was staying in my dorm room, on my bed. One day when I was...
Mikey_Ramone
Xper 7 Age: 34 Why is it so hard to approach random women anywhere?
Well just as the title says. I could be at the gym, supermarket, or just walking around and see a beautiful girl and not make a move. I am always scared of coming off as creepy, what to say, how I look, is this the right...
Anonymous
(36-45) Women Think They Should Approach Men? I Don't Believe That
For a lot of years I’ve always been against women making the first move on a guy, or at least I never really favored it. But now I don’t really care one way or another or make a big deal of it in my life anymore, though I...
How to get laid, If you're so introvert?
I'm 24 and I had a girlfriend and it was a long distance relationship so I'm still a virgin and I realized that I suck at being in a relationship for many reasons. It's really frustrating, It's very hard for me even to...
Anonymous
(30-35) I think I have lost myself?
I had really loved this girl who rejected me. I was ready to be just a friend but things didn't work out, she walked out of my life, we don't talk anymore, we have blocked each other; we are strangers now basically. This...
Anonymous
(25-29) The Post-Breakup Protocol
It has been a while since I wrote a myTake, and it seems that the most popular two of the three I already wrote were those involving relationships. They have been received well, and for that I am grateful. I have read...
NineBreaker
Yoda Age: 42 What is wrong with me, and how do I fix it?
What is wrong with me, and how do I fix it? My libido is too high, I'm single, no kids, and haven't had much experience. My last time was 2013 and I'm 34 now. So my problem is every time I go out anywhere, whether it's...
whysosirius83
Xper 4 Age: 42 Hard to believe that he likes me so much when there's nothing special about me?
I've known this guy for a very long time, like 10 years. We were in the same group of friends for quite some time, and it all begin when I started liking him back then. I had a huge crush on him, but then I realized that...
Anonymous
(36-45) I need help deciding between three really great guys, please read the description and help me decide who to choose?
There are three really great guys that I know that have been approaching me for a while, I have spent some alone time with each and everyone of them, but the more I think about who I will choose, it gets harder. Guy...
bwood5273
Xper 4 Age: 21 So unfriendable or what?
Long story short, last night I felt like testing a theory. Picked a random girl from Facebook friends list. You know, one of those 'friends' you're not really friends with? Well I wanted to change that. I seriously just...
ScaryCool
Yoda Age: 31 Does this girl most likely like me?
So there has been a girl I've had in 2 of my classes for almost a year... I've always had a pretty big crush on her all throughout. Prior to her, I've never had a serious crush. Prior to her, all my crushes only lasted...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why would a group of guys avoid me?
There is a small, comfy area at my college campus where this squad (consists of girls & guys) from one of my smaller classes often hangs out; nevertheless it's a public area where there are couches etc. and it's a nice...
filia
Xper 4 Age: 30 How does get attention and flirt guy while I am such an introverted and shy girl?
I am quite shy and introverted at first impression, especially with guys. But when I really get to know someone, I would show my enthusiasm and the real "me". I guess the reason is I don't feel safe around guys. I always...
JenNG
Xper 4 Age: 34 I have a DELIMA (Awkward shy guy who I think has a crush in me!!!)?
first time he saw me he would stair w/ bewilderment And actually turn his chair to look at me. Ididn’t care cz I am used to guys staring but caught my attention!!! I didn’t care but it got to a point where I thought,...
Nikki6969s
Xper 6 Age: 32 