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Let's say that the relationship is seemingly perfect. You two been together for about eight months. Life is great, things couldn't be better, and you two are simply happy. All of the sudden, he gets a message from a previous ex-girlfriend. She was the woman he dated before you. The message states that she is pregnant and there is a chance that the baby could be his. I am not saying that I am in this situation, however, it would be would nice to see what people would say about this. Would you leave him? Would you stay with him, despite a baby coming in to change everything? Could you even deal with baby's mama drama?

First scenario: you just recently got the girl you've been chasing for years, you've screwed up all your previous chances by flirting and being inappropriate with other girls and lying. But, your friend who is a weak person is talking to a girl outside of his relationship and your friend is telling you he doesn't want this girl and she isn't stopping with pursuing him. So, you decide one night while drinking with your friend to prove this girl is no good. So you harass her and promise to put her through college since you're in the military and you swear you could give her more than your friend ever could and you will also be there when and if she changes her mind.

Keep in mind you do this all while your girlfriend is at work and has no idea. 3 months pass by, and you're about to ship out to basic... and the day before you leave your girlfriend finds those messages and is heart broken... when she's about to leave you, you break down and beg her not to go. You know she cares about you and can't stand to see you suffer so you talk about how you don't want to join the military or anything without her.

Second scenario: your heart has been broken repeatedly by the guy who claims to have been in love with you for years, everyone is convinced he's mad for you and acts like you should forgive him no matter what... and you're tired of playing the victim to him and having him always completely disregard your feelings and the relationship you shared... you retaliate while he's in basic and kiss another guy. It was literally a sit down, think about it, and decided to do it anyways. To make matters worse you decided to kiss your ex knowing quite well that it would hurt your boyfriend just a bit more. You've full on disregarded your relationship at this point and you're about to end it and tell your boyfriend everything.

Okay so I am getting annoyed with my boyfriend's ex girlfriend. They dated last summer for a week, I don't know who dumped who but I think he dumped her but I never asked him.

Anyways ever since then she has liked his pictures that he posts on Instagram. And she comments on them A LOT & it gets on my nerves. Bc they dated once & that was almost a year ago & it didn't even last long. I wish she would just leave him alone.

She likes all of his pictures. And there was one when he was very young he was 1 years old and she commented "aw💞" what do you think do you think she still likes him?

Over the summer me and one of my close guy friends/coworkers dating for three months. He dumped me out of no where the week we started college then a month later had another girl. He was a lot more public with their relationship then with ours. When we dated he never tried to take a pic with me or acknowledge the fact that we were a couple. Which is one of the reasons I feel like if was just a fling and I didn't know it until after he dumped me. He broke up with the girl about two months ago and since then has been trying to go back to how things were with us before we started dating, cause after he dumped me he strung me along for a bit then started being jerkish. I gave up on trying to save our friendship when I found out he had a new girl one he actually called his girlfriend. My motto is to get revenge by killing them with kindness, so I've have been nothing but nice to him this entire time. At the same time I kept my distance by not texting him or having conversation with him alone. We have reestablish our friendship, dispite that fact that I don't trust him anymore cause he hurt me so bad. About a month ago he asked one of our friends if I was still dating "that guy" and she said he acted disappointed when she replied yes. (We recently broke up) We text now every so offend most of the time he texts me first. Last week was his bday so I got him a small gift that he would love and he hugged me for the first time ever. When we dating I was always the one that hugged him and he would hug me back out of response. While were at work we'll sometimes catch each others eyes and he'll smile at me and he always makes sure you said goodbye to me before we leave work which he never did before. Like he says bye and use one of my nicknames instead of bye guys or see you later. Is he just wanting to be best friends again or does he want me back? I never lost my feelings for him even when I hated him. I don't understand why, but I just can't get over him. It's stup