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I was watching a soap opera from the old days. Things were different back then. An unfaithful husband wasn't treated the same as a cheating wife. Nowadays cheaters of both genders get called out for their actions in my area, equally.

Here is what I saw:
A widow kept bringing flowers on her husband's grave. Prior to his death, he was trying to run off with her friend (whom had a child in her marriage too), abandoning his son and wife. Both of the lovers died in an auto accident. Meanwhile her and people all gather in his grave, bringing flowers and/or roses, the unfaithful wife's reputation gets tainted and she gets bad-mouthing her, not a single flower on hers.

Seriously.. all that anger and resentment towards the woman and not the husband whom made the choice to cheat, got another woman pregnant before and was about to abandon his son and wife!!! At least the unfaithful wife was scorned for trying to abandon her daugher and husband. Why not the man too?

Does an unfaithful husband like that even deserves flowers on his grave?

Let's say the attraction is gone. Would you go back out of pity? (I am talking about marriages and LTR s that involve children and other things.)